Ladies please read this!!!!!

Love and hugs to you.

Some times it is so hard to make that break, especially when the abuse is verbal and emotional. I urge anyone in this situation to just open up to someone who can help.

Glitter- I love how no matter what the situation you always manage to use it as a way help others.

And Ladies please do get out of any abusive situation be it verbal, physical, psychological, whatever. Just get out! You don’t deserve to be made to feel like crap, you’re worth more than that. I’m thankful my sister (with the help of our family) managed to get herself and my nephew out of the abusive relationship she was in, but I worry everyday that she might go back or find someone worse because she doesn’t truly believe she deserves better. I know that no matter how many people say it, you have to come to the realization yourself but you need to believe that no matter what you’ve done in the past or present, you don’t deserve to be abused or put down or controlled or whatever and that people will be there to support and help you out.

Im sorry glitter, I just read this… https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif I am glad you are out here and wanting to help other women through tough times and do not know what to do about it! At least if and I hope not that anyone is going through with it now knows where to get help. Love you lots xoxoxo

Hey glitterhips! TY for posting this…I was abused by my 1st husband for the last 6.5 of the 8 years I was with him. He was a police officer…I tried filing a formal report for assault, battery, and rape against him but his dept. protected him….it took me 2 years to finally be freed of him because no matter where I went he found me (my friends were terrified of him that he would plant something and bust them) I could go into more detail about what he did to me but I think you get the picture….I couldn’t get into a shelter back then because you have to have a child so I was totally on my own with that. I finally got away from him when I came to North Dakota…a very kind rookie officer that stopped me because I fit the description of a missing police officers wife let me go after I told him everything.

If your man has ever hit you and apologized even once…YOU NEED TO GET OUT! it is only the beginning. I applaud you glitterhips for your courage in sharing this important yet painful topic!! Love ya girl!! *HUGZ**

omg litlbit that is awful! from everything youve written on here about your life story i think you are such a courageous woman, i couldnt go through half of what you have and come out on top, you are fabulous https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif and thank you everyone else for all the lovely compliments you guys are so sweet….this is just an issue that hits close to home for me and i want to make women more aware of it!

You know the saying what goes around, comes around (and vice versa)…well my ex hubby committed suicide in 1993…he left a note and the 1st paragraph was to me…saying ending his life was the only way he could stop hurting people and he knew it. He apologized for everything he ever did to me…not that it made it better, however knowing he finally admitted what he did was a comfort to me. Hun you and your family are totally in my thoughts and prayers…that could have been me years ago!

I’m glad that you posted this too Glitter! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_salut.gif
I was also in an abusive relationship many years ago, and it’s such an incredibly difficult situation to leave. But reading, seeing, and hearing encouragement over and over from other caring women is a seed well planted.

I am so sorry for all of the family members affected by this tragedy. No woman ever deserves that kind of treatment. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cry.gif
I admire you for posting this despite embarrassment. I hope that Sandra’s case gets the justice that it needs. And that your/her message is heard by other women who need to get out of similar situations.