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perverts in the city
so i wanted a change of scenery from the usual training at home in my carpeted room, where there isnt a tremedous amount of space, to an actual studio. unfortunatly, the closets one that offers an advanced level that fits my schedule is an hour and a half drive and in a really congested city. the drive was worth it, the class was worth it, the teacher was challenging but a great teacher, even told the woman at the front desk that i would make the commute again. everything went great up until i exited, and thats when 2 really creepy older men were just hanging outside of the studio just making there presence noticable. and its not like i havent ever experienced "cat calls" as a female in our society. every girl or woman is going to at some point in her life. sometimes is a confidence boost, sometimes its just annoying. but this time was way different, it made me really uncomfortable, embarrassed, and for the very first time ever i felt dirty for my enjoyment of pole dancing. maybe im naieve or rely too much on my feminist beliefs. i dont even know if i wanna go back, if i should cancel my paid for membership. i dont want to say the name of the studio, theyre very successful and in no way shape or form do i want to slander theyre name. but i dont know if i should just expect it , or…i just dont even know. those perverts were clearly just there to ppl watch the women entering and exiting just loitering outside. the comments were so innappropriate that i refuse to repeat what they said on this site, trust me when i say it was pretty bad. excuse my next statement to the real men, but the little femenist inside me says" just when a woman has good shit going for her as a woman and she feels like a woman, it always takes a man to ruin it.
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