The discussion started with a request to support the American Pole Fitness Association (APFA) after a donation to the National Breast Cancer Foundation was allegedly turned down due to its source. The author shared a story about the incident and asked for support.
What the replies say: Replies debated whether the charity was wrong to refuse the donation, with many suggesting the issue was about anonymous giving or associating with the pole community. Some felt the APFA handled the situation poorly, while others defended the right to donate regardless of source.
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