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Bringing Sexy back…
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I would probably have had mixed feelings too. Hell, I am having mixed feelings trying to decide what to write about this. But no, don’t take it out on Teddy! The no-hands teddy is a move that requires great strength, grace, athleticism, and flexibility, just like so many other pole moves. And there are really few pole moves that wouldn’t show off some, uh, lady bits if the person performing were not wearing any clothing (except maybe a pencil something or other). Will you also stop doing fan legs or V inverts, or Ayesha? No way!
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There are alternative leg variations of the open v is too much for the moment.
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As a person who has taken nude yoga classes I guess I don’t have issues with seeing the vagina or any other part of the human body. So much so that I probably would have gotten bored of this situation fairly quickly. However I am totally with Phoenix, don’t see how this could happen in a ” regular club”. Sounds “inappropriate” for unsuspecting patrons and unsanitary/unsafe for the polers.
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Must admit, having just mastered the teddy, I never thought about it in this light. I prefer not to attach anything but skill to these moves.
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Yeah, I do see why you would be upset, zoilife. This sounds like a cool club, where you can go and socialize and pole, where no one is yelling at you to “take it off” but instead focusing on your dancing and/or the beautiful shapes you can make with your body…until one day people ARE asking you to “take it off”, and suddenly it’s not a safe cool space for you to explore pole without those unwelcome pressures. And the thing about strip clubs is that when you walk into one, you know that if you’re onstage you’ll be asked to take off some or all clothing; similarly, you know that if you’re in the audience you’ll be seeing some nudity. It sounds like the managers of that club did nothing to let the performers know how the night would go, and that was a glaring oversight.
The other part of me, a major part, is like, Wow! Really!? A 57 year old?! …who could not only do all those moves but who also felt confident enough to take off all of her clothes and dance for an audience? That IS sexy! Not to say I want to do exactly that at 57 — but I’d love to think I’d have that kind of confidence at that age. What a beautiful thing.
So, I’m sorry that happened to you. And…wow!
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