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Discriminated against and outcasted from other parents
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This song came to mind but somehow I can't paste it.
The sond is called "Harper Valley PTA" by Jeannie C. Riley.
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Firebird, I would have told that lady maybe if she took a pole class then she wouldnt have to worry about her husband fantasizing about anything else!
Omg how rude to say something about what you wear! its not like you are wearing pole specific clothes, its just a logo for crying outloud!
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Sorry Firebird, but I had to laugh at this little "outing" thing that this other woman did!
I can't believe what some lengths some people will go to in order to create drama! Oh man! And for them to think that you'll feel insecure about your dancing. I bet they were hoping that you'd stop and they could all keep teasing you because you were shy and worried about what they'd think.
And, honestly, I sure hope that's not the case! Keep on going, girl! It sounds like you have a fantastic relationship and a busy life full of amazing things! You're doing GREAT and if anyone tells you otherwise, they should probably be looking inside, rather than at everyone else!
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I hate people who intentionally create drama. I've been outed a couple times. I bookmarked the Natasha Wang On the View performance from YouTube on my phone so that I can show anyone who doesn't get pole, then I explain that before pole was in strip clubs it was a circus sport in China and India. Then I explain that some women like the sensual dancing; others use pole as a vertical extention for ballet. In otherwords, I do everything in my power to get them to realize pole is a tool for any type of dance/gymnastics/aerial expression. Usually it works, but sometimes people are just stupid and too dense to get it.
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Firebird I think that the husband brought it up in hopes that maybe it would spark intrest in his wife and instead it blew up in his face, lol. You know its not your issue what her husband is fantisizing about. If it has nothing to do with her then there is something wrong withtheir relationship. If he decided to say, "Oh I had this great dream about Charlize Theron " is this woman going to tweet Charlize and tell her not be so sexy in her films? It reminds me of a friend ( I dated like 5 years ago) that found out that I was doing it and he was asking me questions (legit questions not pervy questions) about it by text, his wife found out and was calling me nasty and a whore and all sorts of names including homewrecker to make her feel like she had a right to because of her new last name. I told her, "They are just questions, its not my profession and honey to be a whore I have to have sex with your husband." I told her, "I have not touched that man for 5 years when you were not even in the picture because Oh that's right he caught YOU CHEATING. I told her if he is still fantisizing about someone from 5 years ago then you never had a marriage to begin with, don't take your intamicy issues out on me" . Women lash out when we feel threatened and I think that their husbands at least some of them get a kick out of watching them act liek that. What we do is eunique and fun and the ones that were taught to be ashamed of their bodies will always be on their soap box. They don't understand that you con't have to take your clothes off to give a good show because you do it it doesn't mean you are a slut and sleep with any man that will have you. These professional for the most part keep their clothes on and I do not have time for these catty insecure women that live to look down at their nose at people and for the women that like to use the bible as a weapon they themselves are in violation of the 9th commandment so they need to back it up and get off your junk. We do have amazing butts because of what we do. I do not ever want to get one of those saggy mom butts.
KenzieCaliente is right this is the time to teach tolerance of others and what they choose to do in and with their life, just because we may not be into it doesn't make it any of our business unless its causing damage and harm to others. I wear my pole gear proudly and I don't care what anyone says. I'm happy I'm fit, and I'm free. No has the right to make you feel ashamed or even judge you. You can either give in to their comments or you can educate when you can. Yiu can't educate them all, but you can hope that they gain some understanding. Then of course there are the ones that are set in their ways so why try. lol
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