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So this is BEYOND off the subject of pole, but StudioVeena is the only place I can come to vent these issues! Im not sure if any of you know, but Im bisexual and proud!!! My friend Stacy (whom I fell out with last year and I discussed everything that transpired. I forgave her the moment she called (dont know why) and we immediately started planning my B-day thats just passed last monday. We've been friends since we were 16 and I'd always had a crush on her, but we told each other we could NEVER cross that line of FRIENDSHIP and RELATIONSHIP bcuz of the consiquences that come with it. We booked a room on south beach for last Saturday for me, Tasha (her ex) cuz our birthdays are days apart, and her…..also it was was south beach gay pride weekend, which made it better. Saturday night we drank and the next thing I knew I was in bed with Stacy making out like crazy while tasha was downstairs in the pool!!!! We fell asleep in each others arms and the next morning she kissed my forehead and left for work (I got a ride home later)….Im afraid to text her about it or anything cuz Im not sure how the convo will go, not to mention TASHA!!!! What do I do V's?????
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UGH I forgot the the title…..Bisexual Blues
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I think you should talk to her for sure, waiting for something to happen is never good. The both of you need to figure out how you want to handle the situation. best of luck
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@Tigg-Im nervous!!! I have wanted to "be" with her for so long I do even know what to say at this point :-/ I HATE the woman loving side of me cuz its too complicated. That night felt so right and now I cant even SLEEP!
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Girl, don't know what to tell you, except go with your gut feeling. And keep us posted. Good luck!
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I'm going to go with a different perspecitve than what you two have been talking about. Lovers usually start out as friends, which makes sense. Being afraid of being together because of what MIGHT happen is absolutely absurd. Worst case scenario is you two date, it doesn't work and you go your separate ways. Best case scenario, you date and spend the rest of your lives together as a happy couple. You have to keep in mind that people come and go in our lives all the time. I only have a few friends whom I've been friends with for a really long time. Also, my current fiancee, I met him when I was a teenager. If we had been too afriad of dating because of the fear of a breakup and a lost friendship, I wouldn't be with the man of my dreams.
Don't let fear hold you back!
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