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Grip Issue
I am a DVD/Self taught pole enthusiast…I have an X-Pole (2in)…A friend asked if I would show her what I know and I agreed. I would say I dance at an Int/Adv level (I can lunchbox, bow-n-arrow, extended butterfly, gemini/scorpio). My friend had never attempted any pole work prior to our play-date. I figured I would show her a firefly aka fireman aka basic spin first. Her grip was correct (her thumb stayed away from her fingers throughout the spin), her legs were correct (I explained that no weight was to be in her legs…all in the hands). Her positioning was completely correct. She did not "jump" into the spin, her momentum was good and forward. The only thing wrong was the speed at which she slid down the pole. It looked as if someone had poured grease over pole before she did her spin. I thought perhaps she was nervous and had sweaty hands so I offered her some of my grip aid (dry hands)…no difference. I then had her stand facing the pole, place one hand slightly above the other with elbows bent at 90 degrees, told her to squeeze the dickens out of the pole and attempt to hold her own weight…she immediately slid down the pole FAST. My friend is 5’2 but her hands are about the same size as mine (I’m 5’7), mayhaps it’s the size of the pole, maybe she needs to use a 1 3/4"? Or could it really be her hand, wrist, and forearm strength (when she squeezed the pole her knuckles turned white so I know she gave it her all). She is a little overweight and was very discouraged at not being able to accomplish the spin…attributing it to her weight. I feel terrible because she was really hoping to start a new fitness routine to gain some self-confidence and I think she took the whole thing really hard…HELP! I told her not to give up and if we keep trying and be patient that the strength will come. Does anyone have any advice? Is there something I’m missing?
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