The author, a self-taught poler since December, expressed feeling stuck in her progress and a desire to connect with other polers for support and friendship. She was hoping to find people to share her passion with.
What the replies say: Many members related to the feeling of wanting pole friends and offered support. Several suggested using Skype or the site's chatroom for virtual pole jams, and shared their usernames. Others discussed the challenges of finding local pole buddies and offered encouragement.
AI-generated, may be imprecise · updated 9/9/2026
