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  • I need some tips/advice/options

    Posted by roxi94 on April 17, 2013 at 12:12 pm

    Soo a man I’ve known for a year now n completely in love with..he n I hv just started skyping again. Well I need some help on doing sexy stuff for him cause he really likes it when I do. I don’t hv a pole…still lol but I got me. Any tips girls??

    SpyralBound replied 11 years, 7 months ago 7 Members · 10 Replies
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  • calipolepixie

    Member
    April 17, 2013 at 12:21 pm

    Wear some nice lingerie & do a Chair dance routine or sexy dance routune w/floor work incorporated into it.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    April 17, 2013 at 1:33 pm

    I agree chair, floorwork and you could do wall work too! If you want inspiration try doing a search here for floorwork challenges or Chair dance. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif

  • roxi94

    Member
    April 17, 2013 at 1:49 pm

    Just I stink at this stuff cuz not easy for me to be open unless I’m in the mood n hv to be. But I want to open up more. Lol idk how to be ..sexy lol thanx for the tips ill look at some stuff. 🙂

  • Krista Bocko

    Member
    April 17, 2013 at 2:28 pm

    Music! I need music that moves me, so find a song you love and that makes you want feel slinky/sassy/sexy 🙂

  • Pole Mommy

    Member
    April 17, 2013 at 3:15 pm

    The chair, floor and wall are great to use! What type of music do you like? Rock, dub step, hip hop, country??? A great one to try is Wicked Game by The Weeknd, it's very sexy, Body Part by Ciara, Skin by Rihanna, Crave You (Adventure Club Dubstep remix) by Flight Facilities, Ain't Nobody (Breakage's Suck it up mix) by Claire Maguire, Feelin Love by Paula Cole. Hope this helps. 

  • roxi94

    Member
    April 17, 2013 at 3:49 pm

    Thanks! I’ll try it. I wish I cud record videos longer then few sec that I could post cuz I’d like to get everyone’s opinion. But my camera is dead all I hv is iPod which is picky bout length lol ill try those songs. Want to do it for our 1 yr. 🙂

  • roxi94

    Member
    April 17, 2013 at 4:17 pm

    Think this is to slow?? Atb one small step
    And what if I did a quaestor n game and asked him what his favorite fast songs were and his favorite slow songs n I cud pick without him knowing I asked what music he’s like for his show??? Lol

  • roxi94

    Member
    April 17, 2013 at 4:17 pm

    Think this is to slow?? Atb one small step
    And what if I did a quaestor n game and asked him what his favorite fast songs were and his favorite slow songs n I cud pick without him knowing I asked what music he’s like for his show??? Lol

  • Onga01

    Member
    April 18, 2013 at 5:26 am

    Youtube eva bembo.. She is an incredible exotic dancer with awesome awesome floor work amongst her pole stuff! I find her very inspiring 🙂

  • SpyralBound

    Member
    April 18, 2013 at 7:27 am

    No such thing as too slow when it comes to sexy work! 😉 Slow music forces you to slow down. A lot of dancers (myself included) struggle with rushing, especially when we're trying to be sexy and feel insecure/uncertain/nervous about it. 

    Personally I'd advise you to pick a song YOU really like, not one that he has chosen. Yeah, it might be a nice surprise for him, but trust me, he's not there for the music. 😉 Pick a song that revs your own engines and the sexy moves will flow naturally out of that. 

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