StudioVeena.com Forums Discussions Is anyone else here asexual?

  • Jgreylock

    Member
    June 17, 2011 at 5:41 pm

    yup, me too 🙂

    you seem a tad different though, but aren't we all 🙂

    i don't like kissing or sex or anything like that

  • MissChiefNYC

    Member
    June 19, 2011 at 1:18 am

    My husband is asexual (well auto…no blush, masturbation is wonderful), and I was for close to a decade.

  • nilla

    Member
    June 21, 2011 at 11:07 am

    Thanks for posting this topic! It's so interesting to me, and it's why I think it's silly when highly sexual people (or just averagely sexual people) claim other people are repressed or prudish or unnatural if they are not into the whole sexy thing.  The pole community in general is definitely in touch with their sexy(which is refreshing compared to how I was brought up), but I think it's kind of naive, possibly even inconsiderate to assume that other people have a problem if they're not.  Even if a person is not asexual they just may not want to share that aspect of themselves with the performer up on stage or a colleague at work or even their friend at a party.  I think this is evident in society.  Wherever you look there is a code of conduct, with a different levels of appropriateness.  You probably would be thought of as inconsiderate if you pranced around in a gogo outfit at your local park, but totally embraced at Burning Man.  So yeah, I'm grateful for places like studioveena where I feel okay letting loose, but I'm also understanding of societal boundaries.

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