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Keeping this site clean..
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Sexual and seductive come across differently to different people…. and what one person sees as offensive another may view it as art or completely appropriate.
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I’m my opion we all have the same bits. And as long as I dnt come across any vaginas hanging out I’m find. Sum people just have such sexy poses and great sex apeal I’d love to have a inch of that and the cofidence in my pics 🙂 xxx
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I love this site because it is an amazing tool for pole dancers everywhere to unite. I don't like to hear people use the word "trashy" when referring to SV. Veena and Webby work very hard to maintain the utmost professionalism and they do a damn fine job. Nudity is one thing, but nips and booty?? My booty is ALWAYS hanging out of my pole shorts because- well- it happens. I don't purposely flaunt it (maybe sometimes 😉 but it happens. Same goes for nip. I have somewhat large breasts and there's no containing these puppies when I'm inverted haha But seriously- I'm not offended by these beautiful womens' bodies. As for the sensual photos- I think that's one of the beautful things about pole. It IS sexy. No matter what pose, no matter what you're wearing. It's SEXY!! and I love that.
As Jhenn said- sorry you feel this way. you're entitled to your opinion…but I love it here. No matter what photos I deem 'inappropriate'- I understand that pole is an individual art form that should NOT be censored.
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As much as most people hate to say it. Pole started in strip clubs(well it did in my opion first place I ever saw a pole a friend worked there and I went along just to be noisy ha) . And is dunt get sexier than there. I think we all may secretly want to do a strip tease for sumone on our pole and just show a bit more than what we do than when at class.
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the body is a beautiful thing! as long as there are no giners showing, im good! haha which even i watch adult movies, but wudnt wanna see it in the sv feed.
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unlesssss they were doing an awesome trick, then i wudnt mind….heheeee!! j/k j/k
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Omg Rixi, LoL
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giners. LOL is that what your kids call it???
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oh no no no lol i have boys and they dont even know what a vagina is. lmao thats just what i call it. hahaha
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Yeah not a big deal to me either. No I don't want all out lady bits or for that matter definitely no dude bits here… but a nip slip? You haven't lived if you have never had a boob escape occasionally 😉 Personally I love me some full on ~making me sweat, gotta catch my breath~ just watching her pole! I understand that some people don't. That is ok and why this place is so awesome. There is room for everyone. Also my hubby would never judge me based on what someone else did online…. It would be a bad day for him if he did lol
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@cwalden43, I can relate to how you feel. It is very difficult to put it into words and not offend anyone. I understand there are different levels of pole dance and sexy/sensual styles. Same for types of pole wear. Most here know I lean towards the fitness side of pole for ME, but love that others are good or natural at the sexy side, that I wish I could do.
But I also have come across a picture or two/video or two that "for me" crosses the line of what this site seems to be about. I got a little nervous and hoped that sv would not go away from why I feel comfortable here.
Also what ShonaLancs said is how I felt, surprised about particular pictures/videos. I didn't share anything because it can be taken as being judgmental, etc. and they are few and far between. I'm not talking about booty or boobs cuz bodies and pole wear are different for everyone. What was questionable for me is the deliberate purpose of a picture or video.
Again, it's hard to explain without giving the impression it's any sexy or sensual picture or video, that's not the case, 99.9% of what's here is awesome in many ways, just the teeny tiny percent caused me to hope sv doesn't take a turn from what it's known for and why it's a great place. Does this make sense? I hope so.
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For my I love pole and, due to my own current feelings about my body, it is more fun/fitness/dance based. But I would hate to think that fellow polers, if I ever got to a point where I did a sexy routine, were calling me trashy!
It just seems like yet another level of slut shaming that, of all the places in the world, I wouldn’t have imagined a pole dancing website would harbour.
If you don’t like what you see, don’t look. I totally agree with others, it is just odd for an SO to blame you or judge you for things that another person is doing on a website.
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Golgotha, I know it's difficult to explain, please know that it's not the sexy pole dance, as I said, I'm not good at it and WISH I was; it's a totally different thing attempted to be explained. As you can see in my post, 99.9% is awesome, so that for sure does not mean sexy pole dance is not, as a lot of what's here is sexy and awesome. I'll even say 99.9999999999% is awesome, again, it's hard to explain. I guess the few of us understand what's attempted to be communicated and I for one definitely do not want to give the impression of judgmental, etc. Many know of me here and that I'm not one to put down or demean. I apologize if my comments came across as such.
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Oh can I just say, the pics I saw we’re not pole related-no pole in site, which i guess contributed to why I was suprised. I expect to see sexy pole dancing, I didn’t expect to see just sexy pictures.
I’m not judging anyone, I was just suprised. I’m very wary of what I post on SV for reasons that other threads discuss (pole interfering with professional life etc) and I just thought, ‘oooo don’t know if that’s a good idea?’
I think hooked on pole explains it very well. X -
We all have different tastes which is totally fine with me. I just found the word trashy to be too harsh to describe the photos of another member here. I think Golgotha had an interesting point. I've seen lots of explicit content on facebook but I've never heard of anyone trying to clean it up out of fear it will reflect poorly on them. If you are secure with yourself the way someone else chooses to portray themselves shouldn't matter enough to put them down.
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