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Making Goals
Hey Everyone!
So, I'm always TRYING to set goals, but I've come to the realization that I'm quite poor at it. Mostly because I don't understand time.
Let me explain: If, for example, I want to work out and dance for an hour (my average amount of time for a good workout and dance), I usually allot about 3 hours to doing so. Mostly… because I don't really know what "an hour" looks like. I'll tell myself "Okay, I can get this done before dinner!" about four hours before dinner actually happens. What I do with the rest of that time is… procrastinate, worry, and then at the end, settle down and feel accomplished for a while. It's really quite frustrating.
Also, I don't really know what a reasonable about of time is for a goal. Would a reasonable amount of time for me to get my splits from where I am be a month? Six months? A full year? Two? I don't know! I've never done it, and I don't know what my body would do if I actually managed to stretch every day. Which… I don't. I never have done it every day. I'd like to though…
The SMART system seems to make sense in a way, but I think it's the "attainable" part that I don't understand. What is "attainable" in a year? How will I know that something is "attainable," rather than me just overshooting… again?
I'm very bad for being over-ambitious. I'll tell myself "There, I've made a plan, and now I can stick to it!" and it never happens. It bothers me a lot. There's a lot of time in a day that I waste, that I could be putting toward attaining my goals and having fun with my hobbies. I never know what to do when something unexpected happens, like suddenly having friends over, or getting called in to work, or having an essay pop up out of nowhere for school.
I'd like help on this! How do you guys make goals that you think are things you can get to? How do you know what to do with your time? What do you do when unexpected things happen that throws off your "schedule" or… even when you get into a rut and don't feel like doing anything toward your goals at all?
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