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Need some advice ASAP??
Okay so I have this bet with my friend. Who ever lost had to compete in amateur contest at a club. Well I lost. So now I’m doing this and I’m very nervous. Plus if I win I get a hundred sixty bucks. Any homes I didn’t amature night one time a long time ago. I was a tad bit bigger but I thought why not trying when the money. I was nervous to begin with and I got up there and everybody in the club seriously started booing and the guys were throwing paper at me. It was humiliating. I’m scared to get up there and that happening again. I’m more skinny and I’m also more prepared this time. Have some extra confidence. But I’m still terrified. Does anyone have any ideas on how to overcome this? Are there any tricks I can do to make myself more calm? Because I really want to do this just to show myself that I can. 160 bucks is pretty nice. Lol. But my fear is starting to take over. Help?
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I did ametuer night . Typos
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Screw those people who did that to you in the past!! Confidence and courage no matter what you look like will take you far. I’m sure you can do this you are a poler, we are strong inside and outside. Breathe, relax, practice, and find confidence within yourself. When the music starts just go for it. We are constantly evolving as individuals, you are probably not quite the same person you were in the past. When I dance the crowd becomes a blur of people and I almost don’t see anybody but I can if I try too. But anyhow what I was trying to get at is, dance from your heart. Pole is not only a challenge in itself it’s a challenge of oneself. You can only do what you have the ability to do, which is far more then any heckler could ever get close to. even a simple routine or freestyle is quite hard for a pole virgin. I hope u post video of it so veeners can see. Good luck to you.
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