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Opinions!!!
So we had a pole level ceramony where we all make a routine, etc, etc.
I let my husband see it and he totally supports my dancing. However, he suggested that my routine was too sexy, more stripper-like than pole-dance-like. I have noticed many of my flaws throughout it and there are times where it looks highly sexual. BUt does it look stipperish??
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I don’t think it’s stripperish at all. I just think you found your style early on. Your lucky actually. 🙂 you have great rhythm with the music too
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So I can’t actually view the video, but. As a “stripper” I will tell you what qualifies as stripper dancing:
1.) Lots of booty popping
2.) The same routine of walking around the pole, looking pretty, maybe one or two spins with the most advanced trick being a sit or layback. Rinse repeat
3.) Being able to do a lot of tricks with your body parts. I’m not talking about contortion. I’m talking about being able to move the sprout of your lady garden without using your hands, or pick up dollarbills from someones face using only your lady parts.
4.) Lots of self touching. Almost too much. Oh, and all inapproriate selftouching
5.) MORE booty popping.So yeah. Unless all of that happened in your performance, nothing to worry about. Just because something is sexy in pole dance does not make it akin to being an erotic entertainer. If anything, erotic pole dancers are usually less sexy because they don’t like to perform or are too used to it. No one pays us for pole work anyway (at most clubs) so why even bother? I suggest visiting a mediocre strip club if your husband is that worried about it.
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Great routine!!!!
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I would call that beautiful, sensual, and strong. Definitely sexy and you should be proud. There are so many here that would love to have that natural ability, myself included! You are well on your way to becoming awesome. I would not call that stripper-ish. While there are lots of ladies on here who are strippers and also pole dancers, you don't see a lot of strippers doing those strength moves on a pole. CapFeb knows what she's taliking about! Rock it!
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Well love. I dont believe anytihng is stripperish unless u are… well, stripping lol. (which is an art in itself bc it is hard to do so gracefully) … You were def. just poledancing =) which is just you dancing around the pole. which is exactly what you did. =) And you did it very niceley. <3 Alot of ppl mix poledancing and stripping into the same category when its really different. stripping being the removal of clothing and poledancing which is just pole ..dancing. sure u can do both! or u can just do one. I have nothing against strippers. i personally love them LOL! but i choose not to strip so i am just pole dancing. But i do like both on ppl its all an art to me. So dont worry about it love your doing good! Love the routine!
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Well love. I dont believe anytihng is stripperish unless u are… well, stripping lol. (which is an art in itself bc it is hard to do so gracefully) … You were def. just poledancing =) which is just you dancing around the pole. which is exactly what you did. =) And you did it very niceley. <3 Alot of ppl mix poledancing and stripping into the same category when its really different. stripping being the removal of clothing and poledancing which is just pole ..dancing. sure u can do both! or u can just do one. I have nothing against strippers. i personally love them LOL! but i choose not to strip so i am just pole dancing. But i do like both on ppl its all an art to me. So dont worry about it love your doing good! Love the routine!
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Great routine, congrats on graduation! My hubby only supports tricks if I start dancing at all he will ask why and why I want to be good at dancing and not just tricks and who I am trying to impress etc… I don't see your routine as stripperish. On that note to CapFeb~I am dying to know how you move "the sprout of your lady garden without using hands" lol I have never been to a club so this intriques me 🙂
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I have no idea how she did it. I went to a club with Darling Dearest and my vagina phobia stopped me from watching third songs. So I was sitting next to DD and her friend and my friend (guy) was sitting behind us playing with his phone. And suddenly DD and her friend gasp and start laughing. And I look up at DD like, “what happened?” And DD was all, “SHE JIGGLED HER CLIT WITHOUT TOUCHING IT.” And my friend behind us goes, “yes, that’s what she’s known for.”
One of the strippers here has turned queefing into an art. She does a pike, but she puts her knees closer to her shoulders so she’s in a ball. Then has people lay dollars on her lady parts….and she makes them dance and vibrate with…air and whatnot. For guys it’s a turn-on—they think it’s muscles! For me, vagina-phobic and all, I look away and try to mentally flash bleach my brain. The amount of things you can do with that area of your body are mind blowing and equally disturbing.
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Thanks everyone! I greatly appreciate the awesome comments. We always try to help each other become better at what we do and I am always showing him videos of famous polers and he said he expected it to be more like that than "dancey". Not that he thought I would be doing flips and TG lifts and all, just more moves and less dance.
I personally like the dance part because I think it flows better than move after move and that is why I do it. I also find inspiration in polers who are very sensual, such as Alethea Austin. So in all, I am happy with it. I was just a tad bit worries cause I plan on entering the Southern Pole Championship this June and did not want to go into it with too sexy of movements!
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yes alethea thinks its very important to keep the sensual part in poledancing alive. the dancing part. I am workin more on it myself since i use to just be a little trickster lol. i LOVE the dancing part it feels so good =) putting them both together is just wow!
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well here is my opinion!
if someone thinks it looks too stripperish or not stripperish enough, YOU ROCKED THAT SHITTT!! You did so good and you are a natural! Thanks for sharing with us 🙂 -
Also, I was at the strip club last night (ametuer night, needed the cash) and some of the ladies there were train wrecks:/ and then some were awesomely graceful, and some we insanely sexy, and some not so much. Every one has a style. And we all like yours:)
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I love your style. Your hubby is very lucky 😉
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That was beautiful! And I know my Level 1 graduation was the most "stripperish" of them all because… well, when you don't know many pole moves, you rely on body waves, booty shaking, running your hands on your body. And there's nothing wrong with that! You looked amazing and it's only gunna get even better from here!
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And that floorwork would make Alethea Austin proud! Ow ow!
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