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PISSED OFF!
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lopsi, i think you are right: time and forgiveness. things do eat away at you unless you can 'get over' them. Like JB i'm having issues, though it is entirely between me and my sis-in-law, with no one else involved. i'm trying not to hold onto my anger, humiliation blah blah because i know in the long run it will cause more problems than it's worth. That said, i want absolutely nothing to do with her and she has made it clear that she feels the same, which i can live with, even though it does upset me in some ways. perhaps in the future i'll be mature enough to get over it completely and make the first move towards a reconciliation but i know i'm not ready for that yet and i worry that any attempt will not be well received. Maybe one day.
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Great advice lopsi!
Feel for you though. I have had similar situations with my brother repeatedly but after being mad for so long about what he did to our family I decided there’s nothing I can do and holding on to resentment didn’t benefit me at all. It took me a long time to get here and some days are really difficult but I just accept he is who he is. You can’t change people.
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