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  • Pole Pals

    Posted by bertysbooboo on May 20, 2009 at 10:48 pm

    I have been fortunate enough to find several girls in my area to pole with. It happened by accident. Jenn found me on youtube. She thought my home town of New Port Richey, Florida is where I live currently. Having family there, she proposed we get together to pole next time she was down. I looked her up on myspace and noticed she lived about a half hour away. Jenn introduced me to Charley who is near her & Monica commented on Veena that she also lives in our area. Now we have this little pole community. I really feel pole pals are extremely important. We challenge each other to try new things & motive each other to keep at it when we can’t get something. It brings the Veena environment to the outside world. Before meeting these women, I was home alone all the time. My husband works out of town a lot. I stay away from the bar scene making it difficult to meet new people. All I did was work and go home to an empty apartment and my pole. Now I meet with them about once a week or so and I started teaching pole classes with Charley on Tuesdays. I actually have a life and I’m enjoying my down time away from my job.

    I would like to propose a search engine for Veena. If there was a way for everyone to put in their town and see who is close to their area, maybe it would give others the opportunity to have a pole pal too. Something like frappr.com. Just a thought. Let me know what you think.

    chemgoddess1 replied 15 years, 5 months ago 23 Members · 28 Replies
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  • lily

    Member
    May 20, 2009 at 11:50 pm

    I think that’s an awesome idea!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_sunny.gif

    I have been pretty lucky that I started this little pole adventure with a few girlfriends, it’s definitely been a huge part of the fun for me.

    I’m so happy for you BBB the way things are working out with your pole talent and teaching others. Wish I was in Florida!

  • bertysbooboo

    Member
    May 21, 2009 at 12:06 am

    I actually live in Michigan now. I think I forgot to put that. That was what was so crazy about her finding me. She thought I was in FL, but I lived 30 minutes away from her in Michigan. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

  • Foxy_Rei

    Member
    May 21, 2009 at 12:09 am

    I like it, Berty! I actually had a similar idea myself, because I’m one of those people who has no pole pals. Sascha is the closest to me, and she’s a little over an hour away when she’s at school (about 3 from her hometown). So far, she’s the closest and that’s just a bit too far to try to get together. :-/

    If we can’t have a search engine like Berty said, how about a map or something with "pins" with usernames on it? Or lists of states, etc. with the names so at least the field is narrowed? Anything like that would be fine by me.

    And if possible, if we get this option, could we have privacy settings that our specific location isn’t visible on our profile??? Like we show up in a general area or a mileage radius on the search engine but doesn’t display the exact town or whatever. I’m personally from a small town, I don’t mind saying I’m from the Southern Tier of NY but other than to the more trusted friends I have on this site, I don’t like getting more specific than that. Saying I’m from Xville in NY is different than saying your from something like NYC… you know what I mean???

  • Veena

    Administrator
    May 21, 2009 at 12:22 am

    awwww guys, I had thought of this a while back……its way to labor intensive RIGHT NOW for webmaster. I know it might sound simple but this site in itself is the works of a mad genius https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_ugeek.gif I hope that someday in the future we could have that option, but for now we will have to come up with a different way to find each other. Maybe we could have a section in the forum?? I really would like for everyone to find each other, so any other thoughts are welcomed. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

  • bertysbooboo

    Member
    May 21, 2009 at 12:33 am

    I understand. I can only imagine how much it takes to get a site like this up and keep it running. The forum sounds like a good idea too. We could post by state.

  • Foxy_Rei

    Member
    May 21, 2009 at 12:52 am

    I like the forum idea for now. Would serve the purpose. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif Thanks, Veena!

  • Rouge_LAmour

    Member
    May 21, 2009 at 10:31 am

    Wellington, New Zealand is where I am and I have no shortage of poles (11 all up) having a studio with Lisa.
    Next Pole night for us, for those in Welly, is 3 July 2009. PM me if interested…
    Playtime, meet other Pole people, look at the freaks who invert, point and laugh at them etc.

  • Charley

    Member
    May 21, 2009 at 11:32 am

    I think a forum section would be great listing us by state for those who wish to participate.

  • RoxyPink

    Member
    May 21, 2009 at 12:30 pm

    I agree! I would love to have some pole pals around here (Charlotte, NC)!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

  • Jenn

    Member
    May 21, 2009 at 6:12 pm

    Hey girlys! That is wonderful idea Berty!!

    How about adding a search button in the members section? Or would that be too complicated?

    Or… add a topic to the forum based on location… a folder for USA, UK, Aus, etc, because we are all from different parts of the world! Then further threads titled by region. That way, if someone wants to be contacted, they can voluntarily add their info.

  • Neke

    Member
    May 21, 2009 at 9:44 pm

    Would it be possible to just add another (optional) section in your location details for the state that you live in, as well as the country?

    You can already search for members by country and there is already a section to list your town, you just can’t search for it. I’ve tried entering city names in the keyword search that I know people have listed as their city, but it doesn’t return any results.

    I assume it’s a lot easier to set up a search function if it’s searching within a certain section… so if you had a state category in everybody’s profile you could set up a search function to search within that category without too much trouble (I think) because the code is already all there to search through countries – you could just replicate it and change it slightly. It would be really cool if you could search through cities too, although I appreciate what a massive entity this site is and what a headache it would be trying to dig through all that coding in order to do anything at all.

  • Chream

    Member
    June 5, 2009 at 12:49 am

    I agree, looking for pole pals and more pole studios in michigan to practice and learn more

  • Trena

    Member
    June 5, 2009 at 1:43 pm

    I think a ‘Location’ forum where people list where they live would be a great idea for now. This site is already so awesome and I cant imagine the work that goes into it!!! I think an extra forum title is the most doable… (I know nothing about this kinda thing so feel free to scream at me if Im wrong!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif )

  • Beccagirl

    Member
    June 8, 2009 at 2:32 am

    I have to agree with everyone! I love this forum too!! Im from Iowa, so anyone near by that would be awesome to pole with, im trying to get some of my friends involved and there like no way!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif

  • Foxy_Rei

    Member
    June 8, 2009 at 2:45 am

    Just letting everyone know that our lovely PoleDork added a Pole Pals Map under the Pole Jams forum that we can all add ourselves to in order to look and see if anyone is in the area! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif Right now there are only a few of us on the map, but everyone get on there so we can see!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif

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