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Post-Wedding Blues
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I think it is very normal and common to have the blues after a big life event like that.. It really can’t go perfect, there is just too much emotion in the whole wedding thing for everyone. If it were me….I would embrace the “mistakes”…. (It’s like that “thing” when you were a kid that everyone use to tease you about is what makes you special today)
It sounds like you have some great memories that you and your husband can have a good laugh about in all the years to come. At my wedding, one of my husbands best friends went around to everyone (drunk) and asked them why they didnt try to stop the train reck from happening and try talk my husband out of getting married to me. We found out a couple months later what he did….they are still friends because I told my husband to let it go and stay friends..it is “his friends” issues and not ours. Also the wedding official somehow didnt get our revised vows and blabbered on and on and on..it was a total comedy..my husband and I almost started laughing with every new paragraph. (I tell you….that was a huge deal, because my mother in law is really a certain religion and I am not the same as hers and I edited the vows to be more respectful….but those vows went out the window)You guys have your whole life ahead of you and you will face bigger drama and this is only a test to see how you two manage it together.
Have a wonderful life together.
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