StudioVeena.com Forums Discussions Sabatoge in the pole dance community.

  • Angie La

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 5:57 pm

    AWWWW, I really hate this for you Casey… I have a BFF who just trained for the comp in Virginia and that consumed all of her time for months.  I really hope you share your routine with us!!  Maybe it's always been there, and maybe my eyes and ears are just becoming more open to it, but I hear and see so much animosity in the pole community.  I'm all for healthy competition, but I've heard of some really ugly stuff going on, and people entering competitions at a lower level than the really should be… A lot of bashing of other people's style… Is really hurts me to see this.  I almost reminds me of the nancy Kerrigan and tonya Harding crowbar thing 😐 I have my fingers crossed that a little pole envy does not ever turn into anything ugly in my new studio.  There's plenty of pole love and attention to go around! 

  • pfnorthwest

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 6:30 pm

    I really wish you guys would actually read the email before you respond .Nothing is hurting my reputation I happen to be a member of the PDA,USPDF AND THE PFA .  I DIDNT MAKE THE RULES THE VENUE DID AND YES THEY TURNED AWAY ALOT OF PEOPLE ..I have been doing the pole for 24 yrs (before there was even an association for it and names for the tricks !!!) My reputation is great i have over 3000 students ..So again I ma sorry that the venue didnt want to be responsable why dont you slander them NOT ME !!!This is so childlike i am sorry but I am not going to let this waste anymore of my time 🙂 Again I AM SORRY !! If you want to do any contests locally and want to be in them just sign up with a studio 🙂

    Keep up the poling !!!:)

  • divapolegoddess

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 6:59 pm
  • CapFeb

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 7:02 pm

    where is chem to say all the things I want to say?

  • Angie La

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 7:03 pm

    Yet another example of what I just mentioned… Pity.

  • divapolegoddess

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 7:04 pm

    LOL CapFeb!  I read her responses and she is great!!  I think at this point both parties are not going to be satisfied at the responses given, therefore someone should just take the high road and say sorry "politely" with no jabs, and let it go.

  • Angie La

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 7:08 pm

    And webmaster, did you have to delete the 10 repeat posts or was there just a hiccup in the system…I just deleted at least 10 notifications from pfnorthwest posting on this.  I mean, sure, my ipad gets hung up but geez…

    Li was looking for chemgoddess, too, on this one 😉 

  • Serzi

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 7:12 pm

    And, once again, an organized pole event falls into general disarray due to miscommunication and venue bs. Been burned before by this type of nonsense myself and I really sympathize to those caught up in it. 🙁

  • Webmaster

    Administrator
    May 25, 2013 at 7:56 pm

    All the problems are normal.  Lines of communication fail, venues don't work out as expected, authority and judging is questioned, people get upset for justified or unjustified reasons.  

    The difference between a professional business and an amateur business is ultimately in how these things are handled.

  • Serzi

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 7:59 pm

    Exactly. And that’s why I’ll never take part in another showcase again.

  • MellyMelody

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 8:31 pm

    Hence why I don’t even enter photo competitions. I been poling for 8 months know lots if moves learnt by YouTube. And I put all my info in. Including how long the move took me and how long I been poling. And my picture wasn’t submitted in. But over 50 others are. Of professional pictures. Mines was from my camera. They discriminate in thier own way. Intimidation is what I call it. Took them years to perfect something. Took me 2-3 weeks…lmaooo But whatever I will never enter any comps. Too much crap to deal with.

  • MellyMelody

    Member
    May 25, 2013 at 8:36 pm

    Oh and comps in general…lol I do poling for myself.

  • korinne

    Member
    May 26, 2013 at 5:00 am

    Chem is camping this weekend. 

  • CapFeb

    Member
    May 26, 2013 at 5:02 am

    ^  = :'( 

    Also; Oh my God I look like stalker posting a sad face like, barely a minute after you wrote about her. OH WELL. I hope she knows she's missed! 
     

  • korinne

    Member
    May 26, 2013 at 5:05 am

    She's my main pole partner in Cleveland… I can't imagine poling without her… And she's moving. 🙁 So I understand the stalkerish nature. 

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