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So then he said, ” Dance hoe.”
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JungleCat you make me smile. Men are pretty simple, you get an erection and you're good to go 0-60 in a matter of seconds, but a lot more has to happen for the lady to be ready for it, and that doesn't happen in seconds. (Needless to say, this isn't universal and there are exceptions, but I've found it common enough to feel comfortable with the generalization.)
My man is good at foreplay…WHEN he puts the effort in and doesn't rush it. And he's not likely to do that if he just wants to pump and dump, but guess what, I'm not going to enjoy that if I'm not at least a little warmed up. And if both parties aren't enjoying the sex, why have sex? (Like you day this can come down to self-centeredness.)
In any case, ANY amount or type of foreplay is better than just whipping it out and asking her to hop on or go down. That kind of treatment can make a gal feel like a vending machine rather than a partner. (I'm not aiming this at anyone in particular, just sayin'.)
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I hate when I tell people I do pole and they say oh you are a stripper ugh no idiot its pole fitness its not rauchy its nice and its fitness sheesh
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Im a sista I dont take bs. If my man called me a hoe I would have showed him a real hoe. And kick him out and tell him to take a hike. Im not allowing anyone to treat me like a dog. Maybe next time u should tell him to dance hoe hahah and throw pennies at him
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Quan- I don’t take BS either. But trust me I have showed him “hoe” but he enjoyed it ….
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I hope everything is well with you guys now, and i hope he understands and agrees he can't talk to you like your some trick off the streets and that he was wrong for calling you out of your name. 🙂
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Everything is cool now. We have talked about it since and he understands why it pissed me off so much. He thought he was being cute and funny and maybe if the timing was right it would’ve been alright…but damn it if he doesn’t have the worst.timing!
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