The discussion centers on whether social media presents a realistic view of pole dance, with the author questioning if the focus on advanced tricks is discouraging to casual polers. They wonder why impressive feats are prioritized online over the joy of learning and progress.
What the replies say: Many members agree that social media often showcases only elite performers, which can be demotivating. Several people mentioned actively curating their feeds to follow dancers at various levels, and some appreciate the inspiration from advanced moves. Others prefer full-length videos over short clips.
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