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The Return!
Hey there!
I was a member of this website about 8 months ago…and to many people, it probably seemed like i had simply disappeared.
Unfortunately, I had quite suddenly lost my interest in pole dancing…completely. The pole came down for the entire 8 months. I never put it back up…UNTIL NOW!
I found that I had lost my reasons for dancing, and I had lost my focus entirely. Without intending to, I'd used the excitement of others to propel some very unfortunate bad habits, not the least of which being my habit of comparing myself to others. I had to fall back and regroup, and take some time to put that right again.
However, during that time I missed the community here so much that I thought about it, even when I had no desire to pole.
Sooo…I'm baaack! I've done a lot of things in the last 8 months, and now the pole is back up again! I haven't jumped on quite yet…but that shall happen more and more, I hope!
Sorry, this is turning into a book, isn't it? I hope I'm not quite as forgettable as my inner demon likes to think I am, and some of you will remember me 😛
Looking forward to making back my old friends, and perhaps making some new ones, too!
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10 Replies
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Welcome back! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
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Hey hey. Welcome back!
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Nothing wrong with needing time off. I'm glad your back https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_heart1.gif
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Welcome back, sweets! I was just thinking of you the other day and hoping things were well. Sometimes a little time away is just the ticket for making you realize you miss something, n'est-ce pas? 🙂
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Welcome back. Yes, I do remember you. I think it made an impression on me that you were one of the first people to comment when I was sorting out my Christian beliefs and how to share my new hobby of pole dancing with my husband. I ended up following your advice and just talked to my husband until I understood what he is comfortable or not comfortable with. So, thanks!
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Thanks guys! I've been having a hard time being motivated lately, but I think I'm learning that I need to be able to motivate myself, rather than look to others. However, I missed you all SO MUCH that I figured…well, it's just nice to have people around that share the same passions! 🙂
Polergirl: Yes, I understand 😉 I do it a lot. I drop in and out of things, sometimes for years, until I finally make my decision on them. I tend to realize how important they are after a while (or, in some cases, how NOT important they are :P)
Loopy_II: I remember that! I'm glad my advice helped. I've always heard that the best way to get through something is to communicate, when the issue is with other people. I'm glad it worked out well for you! 🙂
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Good to have you back! I missed your zest and sagacity! I will always remember Nanaimo fondly because of you!
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Ah, Poleophile! I remember our pole jam…sooo much fun! Thank you for the welcomes 🙂
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Welcome back! I do remember you as well, glad to see you come back to our big loving community.
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Yay!!! Runey is back! I'd been wondering where you went. It's great to have you back.
I can relate to the motivation thing. That has really been an issue for me lately too. As long you remember it's most important to have fun with it, you'll be just fine!
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