The author shared that their mother reacted negatively to learning about their pole dancing, finding it degrading. This prompted others to share their own experiences with their mothers' reactions.
What the replies say: Many members reported a range of reactions, from full support and even participation, to disapproval based on misconceptions about the art form. Some mothers were initially hesitant but changed their minds after seeing the fitness and artistry involved, while others remained critical.
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