The original poster asked about the hardest part of watching videos of oneself pole dancing, noting a tendency to focus on perceived body flaws rather than the performance. They shared struggles with things like dead arm syndrome and body image.
What the replies say: Many members relate to focusing on body parts they want to change, like legs, stomachs, or cellulite. Several people discussed struggling with body image issues and self-criticism while watching themselves, while others focus on form and technique to avoid negative self-talk.
AI-generated, may be imprecise · updated 9/9/2026
