The author shared a frustrating experience where someone reacted negatively to learning about their pole dancing, making assumptions about it being inherently sexual. They asked if others have faced similar judgment and how they cope with it.
What the replies say: Many members shared similar experiences with judgmental people and advised not to justify the hobby to close-minded individuals. Several suggested focusing on the fitness aspects and ignoring negativity, while others recommended documenting and potentially pursuing legal action if facing harassment at work.
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