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feeling angry
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firebird, WTF?! that lady needs to get a life. that is just sad and weird. she’s sounds a little bit too preoccupied with you and pole dancing. haha!
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Great discussion guys. I definitely feel like most of it is fear based or a deep seeded longing to also join in the fun! I’m going to try and take in stride and just keep being positive about it. I like to share my videos to help promote the studio. I’m not that advanced, but every time I learn something new I just feel so happy and that much more confident. It’s like the best. I do remember a time when I did not feel that way though. Pole has helped me so much. Maybe that’s the ultimate fear for these women and men, actually liking themselves and at the same time appreciating someone else. They aren’t exclusive.
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Very well said Tesar.
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Runemist34, totally agree. When I was in the clubs it was nice to be able to do “tricks” on the pole but the majority of time is spent connecting with each customer. They are not going to throw money at you for doing a good invert. I learned the pole because it was fun for ME,not because it increased my income. And yes, we ARE building a new label, a new definition. It’s called LADIES WHO ARE ATHLETES THAT ROCK! When my male friends see my pole sometimes I get comments like “oh, can I have a demonstration?” to which I say “NO”. It is not a joke or fodder for rumors, it is a serious skill-based sport.
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Laugh at the comments and be proud that you are poler. We can’t change people but we csn challenge them
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