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  • eva x

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 3:16 am

    so sorry thant you can't understan what i mean, but i can't keep going to explain it

    it's so hard? i made exemple;   if you like to comment please go read  that post please but don't reply something totally different 

     

    thank you

  • Cherished

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 3:25 am

    This is pretty interesting coming from someone who posted:

     

    "i really don't understand why you can't accept a simple advice,  or just accept a different opinion,"

    It seems like you can't either.

  • CreativityBySteffie

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 3:34 am

    Agreed cherished.. I've read the first post a couple of times and I can only understand that we dont speak the truth. Im utterly against that. Lets say Im commenting on someone first plank, or polesit, Im not comparing her to someone like Felix Cane. Im praising her for getting a new move. 

    As for the only commenting, people with photos videos.. Thats because we dont know what to say if there is no information.. For a long time I didnt have pictures or videos, and I didnt know anyone here. You need to give something, in order to recieve something back. I dont know what to say about your skills, if I cant see them.. But I promise, if you post something Eva, I'll be supportive all he way.. No pointing ou flaws, because thats just not the way it works for me.

  • eva x

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 3:49 am

    girls oh my god, you are keeping telling me something that is totally different

    i posted a comment, an exemple  :

     

    maybe i can't explain good what i think, cause i don't speak english..

    i don't like to criticize but i don't understand people than keep to tell you that you are sexy and really good, when it's not true

    i mean you can tell her ..ok you are ok ,but not to compliment too much, but yes to give little advice!

    i'm not talking about tell her, you can't dance or something like that

    and i watched so many video, i was like surprised by the comments

    but i'm not the type of person that like to break the balls (sorry) just wanted to know ..

    and believe me, if i'll post my videos i 'llwant to know what you REALLY think, not that i'n sexy when i don't  etc..

    i just want to improve my movements and keep in touch with who can help me 🙂

     

     

    THIS IS THE 3 TIME that i post that; i wrote that maybe the word HYpcrite was too strong, ok but that was my example , i keep to explain cause i don't accept nobody ageed or understand, it's impossible!!!

    i accept all the opinion dear Cherished, but just from someone who really understand what i want to say.  

     

    Creativity By S:

     Lets say Im commenting on someone first plank, or polesit, Im not comparing her to someone like Felix Cane. Im praising her for getting a new move. 

    i talked about say something like that?? please.

  • CreativityBySteffie

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 3:56 am

    I understand what you are saying Eva.. I stand by my reply.. Just because you dont think someone is sexy, doesnt mean others dont. You have no idea weather or not they mean it. 

  • Cherished

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 4:08 am

    Eva what you are not realizing is that you are not being misunderstood.

    We understand that you are NOT saying to make rude comments to people posting videos.

    We understand that you think people are getting excessive compliments for performances that don't seem to live up to those comments.

    We understand that you feel it would be helpful if others would tell people in a polite way how they could improve.

    What people are trying to make you realize is that although they understand clearly what you are saying they prefer not to give nice advise and just enjoy the videos and give compliments wether even if someone could improve on certain areas in their performance.

  • eva x

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 4:09 am

    ok, but don't focalize too much on the word SEXY, i wrote this just one time; i can see you care so much about your sexyness, it's ok for me.

    have a good day..or night

  • eva x

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 4:10 am

    iessss! ok thank you so much. now i m happy 🙂 bye girls

  • Cherished

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 4:11 am

    bye 🙂

  • Cherished

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 4:18 am

    oh god i wish i knew how to spell!

  • eva x

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 5:11 am

    i'm think i'm in love with you now C eheheh jk

  • Cherished

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 2:53 pm

    Hehe love u too Eva! I will be looking forward to your advice when I finally post my own videos 🙂

  • eva x

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 3:01 pm

    what ever you want, im just a beginner eheh, but iwill be happy to have you like a pool d friend 🙂

  • darling dearest

    Member
    October 7, 2012 at 4:23 pm

    I think it has a lot to do with your approach as well! If someone were insensitive to say something like ”That was just ok, nothing special” and proceeded to criticise me, I would definitely be butthurt. It would be much different if someone were to offer suggestions by wording it more kindly, like ”Congrats on getting X move! If you turn out your hips a little more, maybe that’ll help.” I think we are all well aware of the fact that we aren’t perfect and we all have areas that could be worked on. If we didn’t, there would be no drive. I think it is just common courtesy to approach these things with respect, which may be a cultural thing.

    With that being said, it would be silly for me to take the time to post something false on someone’s video. If I say something, I truly mean it!

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