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pole and kids of your new man
Some of you know that i just move in with new bf and he put my pole in the basement next to the sofa where his daughter (12-13 and 15) spend most of their time. Last w-e they were here and i heard them play on it, didn't make a big deal and thought it was better to just let them try it a little by themself. And when i got downstair their hurry back on the sofa lol.
I did tell their dad and he tease them a little and they seem a little shy about it. And i made sure to tell them that i would rather teach them some basic stuff beacause it don't want their mom to get mad at me because they hurt themself on my '' stripper pole'' Seems like she know about my pole and that the oldest already debate the fact that it was a sport.
Anyway all this to ask, how does it work with the kids of your bf? and with the other parent did you had any problem?
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I don't have any suggestions other than, try giving them a little lesson. It could be a good opportunity to bond with them. But are you asking just about how to deal with the pole or just deal with his kids in general? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_pumpkin.gif
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It's mostly to know how it was for the other girls who went trought this. I'm not worry about teaching them some tricks and safety tips. And i'm looking for some bounding with the girsl too https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
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I don't have a man (just haven't met the right one yet) but I do have friends with kids and also young family members (second nieces and nephews). I would try bonding with them by maybe inviting them to a showcase at a studio or watching some performances online if there aren't any in your area. You could even make it a family event by getting them into something similar, like hooping or silks. I showed my second niece (she's 9) how to do gemini and she thought it was the prettiest thing ever, so she asked her mom to buy her silk lessons and it's one of the only hobbies that she's stuck to!
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