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too sad to pole right now….

Posted by tarah on July 23, 2011 at 4:15 pm

hello all of you beautiful ladies https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_flower.gif  thursday evening i got some tragic news that a very dear friend of mine was killed in a plane crash on sunday. he was a pilot, and was flying with his friend who needed a safety pilot for a long distance flight. it was a small single engine plane, and the motor died shortly after takeoff. I know this doesn't have to do with pole, but in a way it does, because i just feel too sad to get on the pole right now! I wish I could express my feelings in a dance, but am not able to get in that space. maybe it will come soon…. xoxo

KateSykerd replied 13 years, 5 months ago 16 Members · 21 Replies
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nymphdancer

Member
July 23, 2011 at 4:23 pm

so sorry to hear that! 🙁
tarah

Member
July 23, 2011 at 4:29 pm

thanks, nymphdancer https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_heart1.gif
Veena

Administrator
July 23, 2011 at 4:39 pm

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that Tarah. My thoughts are with you and your friends family….
nymphdancer

Member
July 23, 2011 at 4:45 pm

some song suggestions for grieving….

I will remember you by Sarah McLachlan

Tears in Heaven by Eric Clapton
Miraine

Member
July 23, 2011 at 4:52 pm

So sorry to hear this Tarah. My sympathy.
polefairy

Member
July 23, 2011 at 5:06 pm

You poor thing. So sorry to hear about your friend. You will dance it out when you are ready. Look after yourself https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_heart1.gif
nellynut

Member
July 23, 2011 at 5:17 pm

bless you sweet and i am so sorry to hear about your friend.Thinking about you hun in this difficult time xxx
glitterhips

Member
July 23, 2011 at 5:54 pm

i am so sorry to hear this news 🙁 i post tons of un-pole related things on here (and as a result everyone knows way more than they need to about my crotch) so don't feel bad the veeners are always here for each other no matter the topic. i will keep you in my thoughts and i know pole seems impossible but it can be great therapy to put on a sad song and just dance without the camera on. <3
tarah

Member
July 23, 2011 at 6:05 pm

omg ladies, you are all so sweet! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_heart1.gif  the support here is unbelievable. thank you, veena, and thank you for creating this!

here is a beautiful video of one of nirakar's aerobatic flights…

(darn, internet security settings wouldn't let me paste! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_evil.gif

just go to youtube and search for fly high.mov
Dancing Paws

Member
July 23, 2011 at 7:07 pm

So sorry dear. I know it's hard. Right after I had a whole TON of stuff hit my fan (I actually just posted a thread related to it), I had a melt down and had 2 days where I literally did no eating or sleeping. All I did was cry. My family forced me to go do things that I normally loved and even those things I had a hard time finding the same joy out of (like going to the beach and seeing my weird choco lab swimming like a tug boat and my mutt having to be lured in the water with big rocks.) Eventually it did help going through the motions. I still struggle, but you have to remember that you are still here and you have to enjoy your life while you are here. You should definately ake the proper time to grieve, but don't lose your loves.
tarah

Member
July 23, 2011 at 7:28 pm

yes, sensualscimitar, i completely agree… and there is a kind of depth in grieving that makes it possible to connect with these beings who have left the earth plane, the love is still totally there. this experience compares only to when my grandmother died. don't worry, i'm not going to go into a depression,or stop poling! it's just like you said, taking the time to feel….
PlatinumAni

Member
July 23, 2011 at 9:42 pm

My thoughts are with you. I had 2 deaths 1 week apart this month. I had trouble getting my pole groove for a bit myself. It will come when your ready.
Madfelice

Member
July 23, 2011 at 10:17 pm

Oh, I am so sorry this has happened. Just take the time to grieve and take in the news. It takes time to process things like that, especially when it is so sudden. Give yourself time and get back into life and poling when you are ready. I am thinking af you for all it means…
tarah

Member
July 24, 2011 at 12:10 am

thanks ladies… @PlatinumAni – so sorry to hear of your losses. that's really alot to handle in such a short time. but we can't give up our poling, lol… and Madfelice, it means alot. it does take a time to process, I don't think it's meant to be hurried or "gotten through" quickly. everyone needs as much time as they need.. xoxo
hookedonpole

Member
July 24, 2011 at 1:32 am

I am sorry for your loss, tara. Please know that loving thoughts and hugs are sent your way https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_heart1.gif

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