OK, I would probably never say this outside this forum because it’s a fairly small group of us regular posters so I’ve got that comfort level and I’ll just say the other posters are absolutely right. But what I will add is that when I first saw your lap dance moves post, I was convinced that maybe you had meant to put it on private and maybe I shouldn’t even be watching it because it was VERY sexy! Of course I watched it anyway, LOL! I mean, what guy wouldn’t! Then I wrote a comment, then I deleted it, because I was thinking she really meant it to be on private, she’ll be really p****d off because it’ll look like I was being creepy! But then I thought, Jeez…you’ve commented on a million pole dances, so just go ahead, leave a nice comment and don’t worry about it.

So what I am trying to say is that you were so GOOD you got me rattled–and that was just on a video! I think you will do just fine. The key in any situation is putting the other person at ease. I would be willing to bet that while he is in total control at the fire station, when he walks into a room of ladies practicing lap dances, he’ll be nervous as hell! He will have his game face on, trying hard not to screw up in front of his friend.

The class is where you are in control. If he’s a decent, normal, polite guy, he will go along with the situation and follow your lead. You know that winning, friendly manner you have in the video like you are talking to your friend Denise? Just use that same personality–you’ll knock him dead–I know it for a fact because I saw you do it on You-Tube!

And as for this post, shhhhh…. ::holds finger to lips, face red with embarrassment::
…..it’s a secret, between us–and everybody else who joins the forum, LOL!

Joel