Amiloo
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Im alot like this also though it sounds like you get it alot worse. All I can say is keep at it! just jump in at every opportunity to perform infront of people, the more confidence you gain the easier it will get, hopefully! Try and show no fear even though your actually bricking it!
The fact that your feel sick for so long though might be due to an actual phobia condition, have you spoken to your doctor? It might be worth your while if you havent Xx
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looks like the customer service is really poor so if I did have a problem it wouldnt be easily resolved think i will just still with the Xpole plan!
Thanks for your reply
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Typical!
Got rid of my lil one to my mother in law and was geared up for some conditioning lessons!!
Thanks for letting me know =) XX
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I just had a look at your photos and I dont know what she was on about cos your beautiful! she must just be jealous of your happiness. I wouldnt even bother with the weight watchers plan your fab just as you are! Xx
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Can I ask why you do not talk face to face? Does he live away?
Its a very difficult situation to be in and I really feel for you Xx
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I was just going to read and run but I just wanted to put my advice in the mix!
Because you have both cheated on each other in the past its difficult for the both of you to see whether texting friends of opposite sex is acceptable. He is proberly overthinking about what you talk to them about etc. Are you secretive about who your talking to and what about?
The thing is there is guilt on his part for what he did this is often a problem in situations like thi, his guilt turns to jealousy aimed at you! I also get on better with guys than the ladies so I understand. I have a couple of guys that I talk to and my fella wasnt really pleased about it at first. I always make sure he knows who im talking to and sometimes loop him in the convo, for example… oh scotts got a new job but hes got to go up north blah blah blah. I also make a point of calling instead of texting as much as possible so he can hear what we are talking about. It seems stupid and a bit petty but thats what he needed to gain the trust. Be barely eveer asks who im talking to now.
As you cheated aswell (even if just as a get back!) this is another area of mistrust. You have come on from it so many years now but it is obviously still a problem. The trust was still bothen on both sides. maybe cut down on your text concos with the guys for a while?
In the end I think you really need to think about whats most important? If he means that much to you wouldnt you do almost anything to make him feel safe and happy with you?
On the otherhand men are known to say these types of things to pin the blame of the break up on you, he may not even be bothered but a coward you isnt prepared to admit hes not into the relationship anymore.
Eitherway you need to sit down calmly together and really root out the problem, sometimes a break can be good but communication is key!
I hope you sort it out I really do =)XX
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I started end of june this year after having my baby in march all I can say is IM ADDICTED!! Best thing EVER! x
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Thanks! I just found them, should be very useful =)