Flexx, WOW! I'm no reliable source since I'm not an instructor or anything but just for the sake of my two cents I'd have to say I think you are justified in feeling a bit irritated by her behavior. In my opinion, I think it would have been a lot less of an issue had she not been so tasteless in her approach. She could have come in politely and asked for help or suggestions with her Choreography rather than walking in with what sounds like an attitude of entitlement to your steps. I imagine you would have taken much more to that than her blatantly coming in to "steal" your hard work! I think whether she's two blocks, miles or states over it's still disrespectful to take advantage of someone else's efforts and creativity! Not sure how you handled it but I know I would have expressed that I didn't appreciate her intentions and would rather help her create her own choreography or nothing at all. Either way, I don't think you were the one being rude at all!