I’m currently at Bobbi’s and can’t dream of going to any other studio. Bobbi’s is dance-orientated (rather than trick or fitness) and very encouraging of embracing your sensuality, but not everyone is wearing tiny shorts and heels. It depends on the student. Whatever is your style or look, no one is going to judge.
They do casual classes, not sure of the cost though as I think it can vary depending if you’re taking a pole instructional or another sort of class. Bobbi’s is definitely sexy-style pole, but the pole instructional isn’t really “stripper” style per se.
If you want to more booty popping and what not, you take Chilli’s Pole Grooves or SLAP classes. Some of the Pole Grooves class routines are on Youtube if you want to see if it’s your thing.