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  • CapFeb

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    April 24, 2013 at 11:09 pm in reply to: which Pole Expo workshops are you interested in?

    Pretty much all of the Sunday classes

  • CapFeb

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    April 21, 2013 at 12:00 am in reply to: Pole Rage. Help Me!

    I shouldn't have read this thread. I read your facebook post and thought it was very tasteful. I would like to share it on my wall, but my facebook consists of; 
    1) Other pole dancers. Obviously very supportive of pole
    2) Gamers, who, while they're trolls and know I'm a stripper, are very understanding that I love the art of pole. Not the "money" in it. 
    3) Girls from high school who were former ballet/tap/jazz, so when they see one pole video, they understand the aerial DANCE aspect of it. I've never had anyone say anything rude on my facebook. 

    That being said, I want to punch your friend Christa in the face. She should definitely go on the "Delete" list because to me it sounds like she (a) doesn't get it and (b) is somehow making the topic about her by talking down to you numerous times. 

    1) " But I would ask if you would feel comfortable doing it in front of your dad, brother, or Jesus?"  

    Poledanceforjesus. I kid you not it's a thing. An AMAZING thing. People get closer to God through dance all the time, it's your fault for trying to sexualize a plain, inanimate object. These people don't. Just saying. 

    http://abcnews.go.com/US/hallelujah-christians-pole-dance-jesus-texas/story?id=13194891#.UXNxuLUWJso

    2.) " As far as those other pictures are concerned, clothing has been beyond ridiculously scant for many years now inside and outside of "sports". 

    I'm sorry. Was she just trying to call you out for wearing shorts or something? And then she goes onto say, " could almost argue that women who dress seductively might have the problem as they obviously want attention to fill some sort of heart hole." 

    So…first she complains about someone unmentioned not dressing to fit HER standards, then says that person in question is lonely and has a self-image problem? 

    Gonna have to go to the ER later. My eyes are about to fall out of my head from all the rolling they're doing. 

    Sorry, I hate to sound like a grade A bitch. But this girl. Sounds like she doesn't WANT to get it. And just wrote a really wrong, long, and poorly written (use the damn enter key, there's this magical thing called paragraphs) just because she had an opinion, not because she wanted to understand what her friend was going through. I have no idea who this woman is, and I could be 100% wrong. That's just the impression that she made public to me through the internet. 

     

     

  • CapFeb

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    April 19, 2013 at 8:03 pm in reply to: Odd fitting Pleasers

    I switched to Anthony’s. I will only buy pleasers boots

  • CapFeb

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    April 19, 2013 at 7:02 pm in reply to: Odd fitting Pleasers

    I’m done buying pleasers. Their quality has gone down significantly, while their prices keep hiking. And I had no idea they never dealt with consumers..

  • CapFeb

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    April 17, 2013 at 2:08 pm in reply to: Beautiful pole dancer?

    You gaaiizz. Y u gotta make me cry and such! But they're happy, grateful tears. I guess. 

    My body: 

    1.) Dat white gurl booty. I like that I don't have to have the brazillian butt lift video. I pretty much look like I have implants, it's just so far up there. It's nice! 
    2.) I like the lines my shoulders make. It's so Hollywood noire. 
    3.) I have really nice legs. Thank you tennis, and also pole. 
    4.) I have fangs. I guess it's the trend in Asia anyway, so thank you Asia for making me look cool. 

    Pole:
    1.) I like that I'm a very emotional dancer. I think other people appreciate it, too. 
    2.) I AM SOOOO much more flexible than I thought I was. 
    3.) Abs and arms. My arm strength isn't quite there yet, but I like that I have biceps! They're so pretty 😀 

  • CapFeb

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    April 12, 2013 at 3:32 pm in reply to: Foot-Nazi’s Are No Fun

    I don't think that toe pointing is all it's cracked up to be. I wouldn't know a "line" if it hit me in the face six times over. But….

    I get really upset when girls enter competitions and they have "barbie feet". And then they win them. Like, I recently watched a competition where the second place winner won over a much more polished routine. She had the worst case of barbie feet I had ever seen. Not to mention her whole kit of moves was unpolished, she seemed like she was going to fall off the pole any second…if you're going to eat shit, atleast look graceful when you do it. Like one of the times I saw Jenyne fall, she was so into it and then she just kinda..oopsie'd. And she got back up there and brushed it off. But you would have been expecting that with poor form. Granted, Jenyne is an icon–but that just proves my point. When learning a move or just freestyling, I don't think it matters or needs to be heckled. But if it's a performance piece and you are there to be JUDGED, yeah, you better expect flack for it.

  • CapFeb

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    April 12, 2013 at 3:32 pm in reply to: Foot-Nazi’s Are No Fun

    I don't think that toe pointing is all it's cracked up to be. I wouldn't know a "line" if it hit me in the face six times over. But….

    I get really upset when girls enter competitions and they have "barbie feet". And then they win them. Like, I recently watched a competition where the second place winner won over a much more polished routine. She had the worst case of barbie feet I had ever seen. Not to mention her whole kit of moves was unpolished, she seemed like she was going to fall off the pole any second…if you're going to eat shit, atleast look graceful when you do it. Like one of the times I saw Jenyne fall, she was so into it and then she just kinda..oopsie'd. And she got back up there and brushed it off. But you would have been expecting that with poor form. Granted, Jenyne is an icon–but that just proves my point. When learning a move or just freestyling, I don't think it matters or needs to be heckled. But if it's a performance piece and you are there to be JUDGED, yeah, you better expect flack for it.

  • CapFeb

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    April 12, 2013 at 3:16 am in reply to: You may be a pole dancer if…

    ….If when you walk through your house you find atleast 3 bottles of grip aid lying around.

  • CapFeb

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    April 12, 2013 at 3:16 am in reply to: You may be a pole dancer if…

    ….If when you walk through your house you find atleast 3 bottles of grip aid lying around.

  • CapFeb

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    April 9, 2013 at 3:14 am in reply to: You shouldn’t go to strip clubs and heckle the strippers

    I typically do a few things, and if I'm really into a song a full freestyle. If no one is tipping the stage because I refuse to shake my ass, booty pop, or wiggle my feet back and forth to make my ass billow, I will sit on stage with my arms crossed or stretch to let people know I'm bored. 

    I'm not afraid to talk shit back to customers. I had a group of girls come in and start talking shit about girls on stage, so I whenever that happens I drop by with a group of applications. "Oh, so you can sit here and make fun of the girls, but you wouldn't even try to get hired here. It's so easy, go ahead. Go on stage. Manager already said it was okay. No? You don't want to? Didn't think so." 

    I make sure to slam my heels a few times to let people know I'm not only booty popping and sitting there and looking pretty. But sometimes that doesn't work. Occasionally, I'll have a smart ass yell something like, "You're going to hurt yourself" or "You need to calm down on that pole." To which I reply something along the lines of, "sorry, it's really hard to hear you with the d*** in your mouth." I actually love when people heckle me; gives me a reason to be a bitch to someone without giving a crap about money they're giving me. About 80% of the time another customer sees what's going on and buys pity dances anyway 🙂 

  • CapFeb

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    April 9, 2013 at 3:14 am in reply to: You shouldn’t go to strip clubs and heckle the strippers

    I typically do a few things, and if I'm really into a song a full freestyle. If no one is tipping the stage because I refuse to shake my ass, booty pop, or wiggle my feet back and forth to make my ass billow, I will sit on stage with my arms crossed or stretch to let people know I'm bored. 

    I'm not afraid to talk shit back to customers. I had a group of girls come in and start talking shit about girls on stage, so I whenever that happens I drop by with a group of applications. "Oh, so you can sit here and make fun of the girls, but you wouldn't even try to get hired here. It's so easy, go ahead. Go on stage. Manager already said it was okay. No? You don't want to? Didn't think so." 

    I make sure to slam my heels a few times to let people know I'm not only booty popping and sitting there and looking pretty. But sometimes that doesn't work. Occasionally, I'll have a smart ass yell something like, "You're going to hurt yourself" or "You need to calm down on that pole." To which I reply something along the lines of, "sorry, it's really hard to hear you with the d*** in your mouth." I actually love when people heckle me; gives me a reason to be a bitch to someone without giving a crap about money they're giving me. About 80% of the time another customer sees what's going on and buys pity dances anyway 🙂 

  • CapFeb

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    April 7, 2013 at 10:35 pm in reply to: Mentally preparing for first night of exotic dancing….advice?

    Are you going to be working at the Flame? The girls there are super nice, don't worry about it. I recommend getting a girl who is in the industry to give you a lapdance, or going out with friends to a club and getting a few so you know what it's like. I tried learning by myself and teaching myself, and after I got a few from girls and understood what they were doing, my money pretty much trippled. 

    Generally, on your first day/week/month you can spend about 4 songs talking to people and they will buy a dance 99% of the time. As time goes on, you can reduce that to three, then two. Watch out for managers, never go anywhere with a customer, and don't be afraid to be a bitch–some guys are into that sort of thing. Don't stack dances more than $20 at a time. If someone gets a dance, and wants you to keep going for 10 dances, they have to show the money first. It's better to possibly offend someone who might have $200 than work for someone who doesn't even have $10

    🙂 I'm in the north side of the valley, but I've been thinking about working east valley for a while. Let me know how that goes. 

  • CapFeb

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    April 6, 2013 at 12:23 am in reply to: Moves you dont like?

    @Frenchhorndiva I didn't like the way it looked so painful, but then I saw a really nice variation that Felix did that looked a lot more natural and graceful 

    http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-GkKETGzLGuc/UAHXEJJCl7I/AAAAAAAAAE8/VRQ__k20fw0/s1600/poledancing_600.jpg   

    It's more about middle splits than a strong straddle. And the pole is lower down on the back. 
     

  • CapFeb

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    April 5, 2013 at 6:45 pm in reply to: Moves you dont like?

    I think superman is ugly. I love superpain though, and Marlo’s superman variations. I think teddy is ugly, but love Natasha’s and Nadia’s variation. I have learned if there is a move I think is ugly (Jasmine) there is a variation that is beautiful (Marley). So now I learn everything 🙂

  • CapFeb

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    April 4, 2013 at 9:22 am in reply to: flag invert

    I was told you should learn this move aerially and never kick up. When I learned it, I was taught to go from a climb to leaning forward around the pole (as if you're about to go into twisted ballerina. Getting your head as far below your butt as possible is key. Then you armpit grip and lift into brass monkey. It sounds really simple, but took a lot of practice for me to even get my legs off the pole. I gave up on this move and am working on conditioning, it's a lot harder than people making it look! 

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