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This is one of those subjects that is hard to cover because there are so many opinions and not all will agree. Especially when religious beliefs come into play. My fiancee and my family are good examples.
My fiancee is Catholic and I am Christian ( I dont go on a regular basis but that has to do with our personal feelings) but all that aside. When his family found out they flipped. Thought I was horrible and a stripper!! It put us through hell and we still deal with it from time to time. My family does not know yet, but will soon because Im tired of hiding it. In all of this I learned that poling is my passion. One of the ways I can truly express myself and it relaxes me. And stopping or not letting people know hinders you from living your dream. Life is to short to be ashamed of something you love. I feel that if I want to let others know of this I know my facts and I fight to make sure they know the real truth about it. His family made me feel ashamed and said because I poled I didnt worship god. It just shows you how much people try to push their beliefs and feelings on others. And feel its ok to pass judgment and it is NOT!!!! No one should have the right to judge me but The Lord when my time is up.
The Bible has lots of Psalms about dancing for example:
Psalm 149:3 Let them praise his name with dancing, making melody to him with tambourine and lyre
Jeremiah 31:13 Then shall the young women rejoice in the dance, and the young men and the old shall be merry. I will turn their mourning into joy; I will comfort them, and give them gladness for sorrow.
The way I look at it is, The Bible talks about dancing to rejoice and praise the lord, however no where does it say what type of dancing. So if you think about it your are doing nothing wrong(which is why the group that poles for God isnt either) They suffer people saying stuff about them and judging them, but they still go to service and love God. What does that show of their fellow church community that are saying they are sinners?
Most importantly its about how u feel truly. We can give you our opinions but its ultimately up to you. Poling doesnt make you a bad person or a sinner. I wouldnt hide it because its a new age and we have to learn to be accepting of all the new things coming at us. I also love it too much to care what anyone thinks about it. I have lived to long listening to others and for fear of ruining my reputation. I missed out on alot of neat experiences bc I chose to listen to others(just to make everyone happy) and not my heart. Whether you hide poling or not everyone will form their own opinion. Living life by others opinions doesnt allow you to truly live. Life is short and need to live it to fullest no matter how much someone tells you your wrong.
To juicy J your personal life should not affect you leading youths. What you do on your own time is your buisness. In a way that is discrimination and they shouldnt have done that to u. Im sorry that happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story.
I apologize if I offended anyone in anyway. Wasnt my intent.
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This is one of those subjects that is hard to cover because there are so many opinions and not all will agree. Especially when religious beliefs come into play. My fiancee and my family are good examples.
My fiancee is Catholic and I am Christian ( I dont go on a regular basis but that has to do with our personal feelings) but all that aside. When his family found out they flipped. Thought I was horrible and a stripper!! It put us through hell and we still deal with it from time to time. My family does not know yet, but will soon because Im tired of hiding it. In all of this I learned that poling is my passion. One of the ways I can truly express myself and it relaxes me. And stopping or not letting people know hinders you from living your dream. Life is to short to be ashamed of something you love. I feel that if I want to let others know of this I know my facts and I fight to make sure they know the real truth about it. His family made me feel ashamed and said because I poled I didnt worship god. It just shows you how much people try to push their beliefs and feelings on others. And feel its ok to pass judgment and it is NOT!!!! No one should have the right to judge me but The Lord when my time is up.
The Bible has lots of Psalms about dancing for example:
Psalm 149:3 Let them praise his name with dancing, making melody to him with tambourine and lyre
Jeremiah 31:13 Then shall the young women rejoice in the dance, and the young men and the old shall be merry. I will turn their mourning into joy; I will comfort them, and give them gladness for sorrow.
The way I look at it is, The Bible talks about dancing to rejoice and praise the lord, however no where does it say what type of dancing. So if you think about it your are doing nothing wrong(which is why the group that poles for God isnt either) They suffer people saying stuff about them and judging them, but they still go to service and love God. What does that show of their fellow church community that are saying they are sinners?
Most importantly its about how u feel truly. We can give you our opinions but its ultimately up to you. Poling doesnt make you a bad person or a sinner. I wouldnt hide it because its a new age and we have to learn to be accepting of all the new things coming at us. I also love it too much to care what anyone thinks about it. I have lived to long listening to others and for fear of ruining my reputation. I missed out on alot of neat experiences bc I chose to listen to others(just to make everyone happy) and not my heart. Whether you hide poling or not everyone will form their own opinion. Living life by others opinions doesnt allow you to truly live. Life is short and need to live it to fullest no matter how much someone tells you your wrong.
To juicy J your personal life should not affect you leading youths. What you do on your own time is your buisness. In a way that is discrimination and they shouldnt have done that to u. Im sorry that happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story.
I apologize if I offended anyone in anyway. Wasnt my intent.
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Thank You for your replies.I hope my post made sense to everyone because i think i worded some of the stuff wrong. I apologize. When I said Self training I meant on the pole not the contortion. Im doing the contortion as a hobby but also what to incorperate it into routines as well. I have been poing for a couple years but had to quit because I was pregnant. So I just started poling again 5 months ago but I am having issues because I still weigh 180 and have my baby flab. alot of weight to lift, But I just dont seem to be building muscle.No idea why?I have alot of toning to do yet.
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I started off on a 50mm that was a non spinning, slide together two pieces pole. the kind you can get at adult stores. It was super hard for me to master the tricks or be sexy. Im only between 4ft 11 and 5ft. cant remember heigth horrible I know. i have small hands, so i got myself a 45mm xpole. The threaded one and I love it. I have done so many more tricks and I can actually do the moves with grace and not look akward. lol. Best pole ever.
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This makes me so angry. I hate how judgemental people are. Its like omg just because you pole dance doesnt mean your going to be a stripper. Its the influence that they are put under. If a kid is told its excercise and thats it they will see it just as that. For gods sake people need to be more open minded and learn poles arent for strip clubs anymore. Honestly sad fact is ther will always be debate because people are to scared to try it. I know most if they tried it would not have the same view. its so frustrating its people like that I just want to shake and say you are so blind to life. Welcome to the future. Like was said the world is changing and evolving and if you dont get with it you will be left behind.Ill let my daughter excercise on the pole and teach her that its an art. Because if you think about it it truly is. It teaches you to be graceful but at same time strengthen your body and stay fit.
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Mine is Lilith Rayne. Favorite video game character and name of a movie character. Im a geek though. lol
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Is it still for sale?