DragonPhoenix
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I REALLY can’t wait until this lil’ gal’s album comes out, I’m hoping some of the songs she covers is on it because she’s awesome. I’d like to put her version of Christina Aguilera’s Hurt on my list <3
Caroline Costa – Hurt (Christina Aguilera) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pQvCtBMtnx8&p=044A9AF9C906308D&playnext=1&index=19
Caroline Costa – Fallin’ (Alicia Keys) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYHxa7KrpiI
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A gorgeous studio like this at a price like that doesn’t come along every day, it’s definitely a steal https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_exclaim.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
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aww! thank you @DragonPhoenix
You’re quite welcome https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
Being a dancer = being in shape, even for plus size girls and right now I’m not as toned as I’d like to be and I have a pudgy little belly. I see buns of steel and toned abs in profile pics which only gets me looking forward to pouncing onto a pole more and more.
A dancer’s body is one that you should admire, not hate just because you’re insecure about yourself. Either step up to them and ask for advice so you can not only enjoy the healthy benefits from it but feel better and sexier or walk away miserable and keep the snide remarks away because it only makes you look like an ass, judging someone that you haven’t even taken the time to get to know.
(I swear I’ll have to keep the second paragraph as a quote somewhere so I can say it to someone in the future, that seems rather closed-minded) https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_exclaim.gif
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the girl who said all of this has known me for 14 years https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_eek.gif & i had been with her brother for almost 6 years. she knows me pretty good & just thinks i "put up a front" for his family. thats not true at all. i am myself always https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif sometimes i tone it down a little (like at work) but everyone i know knows about my pole dancing, even my grandma & my 77year old great aunt who watches my videos on facebook https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif
Then I feel sorry for her for apparently being miserable enough to feel the need to insult you in your home. For someone who’s known you practically all your life, she doesn’t know jack dittle about you which brings me to the most ovbious reason why a girl would call another girl a name without knowing the facts, because of jealousy. You are after all the hawtness (snuck a peek at your profile pic https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif ) and that combined with something completely smexy, such as pole dancing is urking to her.
I always found it funny when people said nasty things cause I see just as bad stuff on tv and movies. Plus half the girls that were so negative were the same girls at the nightclub dancing all sluty after a few drinks and going home with random men. But I was the whore, not them!
Another jealousy issue there and possibly low self esteem too. If girls have to be so friggin’ nasty to another girl and call her names without knowing if what they even say is true, then turn around and get drunk then sleep with strangers then I certainly do think it’s low self esteem whether they’ll ever admit it or not and if thats the case, it would tick them off even more when confronted which would result in them tossing more nasty names at you. I’ve known enough girls in my life that were like that, I would watch them give other attractive girls dirty looks then talk ignorant stuff about them even if they didn’t even KNOW who they were. Another reason I know is because I used to say nasty stuff about other girls occasionally and thats because I was jealous and it made me feel better about myself. I grew up though and stopped judging people I didn’t even know, I don’t even talk down about prostitutes because there’s always the possibility someone is forcing them into working as one.
I also notice that all you gals that get called whores and sluts is attractive and I pitty those who have to focus on hating on others rather than going out and getting their hair permed or straightened, their nails done or whatever to help them feel better about themselves.
I had the wrong impression about pole dancing at one time too and thought women were just being attention whores since there’s other jobs they could be doing rather than getting naked for strangers on a daily basis and I looked up some pole dancing on Youtube when I found a free strip club pass in the boyfriend’s pants pocket (I wash his clothes, so I gotta root in his pockets so I don’t end up washing change or some crap https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif ). I was so burned up about it, but forgot about the card even existing when I found some interesting videos. It was either Karol’s or Veena’s that I found first and I was like "omg" and watched a pile more then signed up for this forum that same night. My opinion about pole dancing changed pretty quick, thats for sure. The Reverse Grab that Veena does in that "Ninja Spy!" video sent chills down my back, I LOVE that move. I also notice that pole dancers seem to have the best personality too, I was a bit against being friends with other females because of how nasty a lot of the ones I know are but this place seems to have a magnet that attracts people with good personalities because all the best peeps from around the world seem to be right here <3
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oh honey! a few weeks ago i had someone come into my home & tell me that i was an attention whore because i have a pole in my home https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_twisted.gif seriously pissed me off, i’m sure you can imagine, lol! but you know what? we (pole people) know better! & we know how hard it is & how great it makes us feel && what a wonderful workout it is https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif the only thing any of us can do is just keep on poling & show our strength, if someone challenges your opinion on it you can show them some hard moves, or show them a tasteful pole video with a lot of hard tricks in it. i just sat there like an idiot because i was stunned https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif i didn’t even defend myself https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_confused.gif that was mainly because it was my boyfriends sister (now my ex boyfriend) & i didn’t want to fuss with someone who could have been my family at some point… looking back, i really wish i had asked her to go try a easy move, like a fireman spin or something easy like that because we all know its harder than it looks & i think it would have changed her tone.
Wow, that was not only rude to automatically assume something about you without even knowing it for a fact but it was rude to come into your home and say it. People should always respect someone in their own home because they would expect respect in theirs. She apparently doesn’t know you good at all, else she wouldn’t have thought that but it could possibly be a jealousy issue. All dancers are fit and people, especially guys notice that so it possibly urked her to see a pole there and called you a name to make herself feel better.
Maybe make a dedication just for her, with all your best moves in it https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif En Vogue’s Free Your Mind seems to be a good song to dance to actually, especially if you’re dedicating the vid to people who are hating on you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i7iQbBbMAFE&ob=av2e
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I’m in the process of adding lots more designs, I just got a new batch on REALLLLY cute fabrics, lips etc. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
omg, LIPS!? I look forward to seeing ’em! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif
edit: and yay! I found you on Facebook too https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
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Ok, I know what I would like… white crushed velvet stretch thigh high boots with chunky heels https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif
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yw
That vid gives me goosebumps occasionally when I watch it. Veena did a great job with it https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cat.gif
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Veena’s tribute to Gina <3
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lh6JENjJ2pc
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I did a little more research and so far nothing still. I believe I will settle for PoleFit Carolinas if I do indeed take classes when I move down there. I’m tickled pink about who the instructors are there so that definitely makes the place a big plus for me. No complaints one bit.
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And to officially end this battle (in my mind, not meaning here on SV), I no longer feel a pang of wrong doing, as I just found out that soon thereafter he went to a bachelor party, at a strip-club, which I strictly forbid – okay, strongly requested that he did not go to, I’m not his mom. I told him it was fine to meet up with the group after the "event" and go bar hopping or what not, but told him I was definitely NOT okay with the strip club. He kindly agreed and then flat out lied, said he was meeting the group at a local bar, but went to the whole party – strip club and all. But, I would have been proud, he didn’t do anything wrong but go see some t****ies. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif
So, as far as I am concerned, I feel no guilt anymore and have further proved my point to myself that I am only 1/2 of this equation, and the other half is a giant, immature, disrespectful, piece of . . . . . butthead.
Oh wow… THAT was nerve doing. He didn’t want you going to a bar with a pole and have fun with a group of girls FULLY CLOTHED and you didn’t, even though you really really wanted to and he skippity doo-das to the nudey bar after you asked him not to. Thats a sure way to p*ss me off for sure and it is definitely not fair that you respected his wishes and he didn’t respect yours. It probably is better that you two live separately and from now on let him do his own thing and you do yours.
I have occasionally mentioned to my b/f about wanting to go to a strip club because I had never been to one before until months ago when I visited North Carolina and he never brought me along when him and his friend went nudey bar hopping and they apparently been to all of them in Dundalk and Baltimore (not in one night though), which made me feel crappy https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif
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Im glad i stumbled upon this post bc i was invited to go to a bar/club on monday w some girls from class and also David Owen and i want to go…… but im hesitant to bring it up to the hubs, bc im sure hrle wouldn’t want me to go and i totally understand why. But i think it’d be such an adrenaline rush to pole in public and show everyone that big girls can pole too!!! Plus it was an adrenaline rush poling in front of my family at our reunion!! I wish he could come w me so after my turn i could go cuddle w him so no creepers bother us! Not saying they’d bother me, but u never know! (Sorry for typos im on my phone)
Ask him https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_flower.gif
Let him know about that adrenaline rush you get when you show peeps the amazing tricks that can be done on a pole! Reassure him that all you want to do is have a good time with your gal pals and that you would even want him to go as well. He’ll probably be glad you asked him rather than just going out and doing it, it shows that you respect his opinion ^^
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Going on an outting with friends to a bar with a pole sounds really fun https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif …but like amyxshi said, men are dogs and you might actually get unwanted attention from a drunk and that could possibly be one of the reasons your hubby is completely against the idea of you going to one. There’s too many people out there that get the wrong impression of girls pole dancing, regardless where its being done at and some guys might take it as an invitation that you want to pick a man up when you actually aren’t there do do that and try their luck with taking you home with him.
I can understand why you’re fuming mad though, you had the chance to have a good time with your friends but the hubby was against it and ruined it for you but you need to understand that its likely only because he’s trying to look out for you because he loves ya and doesn’t want any jerks trying to pick up on you https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
Your Native American Pole Dancing Name is now Wild Spirit MommaBear btw. You might be married but dammit you still want to have fun and don’t care where you are or who is around. If you’re enjoying yourself then why care who’s around? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
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https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_flower.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif !!! Congratulations on your first year !!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_flower.gif
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The only good use for a Flirty Girl Fitness pole is keeping it handy as a weapon if someone breaks into your house. It would also look excellent as a floor-to-ceiling candy cane during Christmas, just twine some garland or ribbon around it to look like one https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_dwarf.gif
As for pole dancing? Sure, if you live the dangerous life and wanna risk getting broke’t and sent to the hospital. It would be embarrassing having to tell the doctors "I broke my hip because my Flirty Girl Fitness pole collapsed", even the doctor would probably know they’re not the best pole to get https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
And Carmen Electra should be ashamed of herself for letting a lousy pole be manufactured with her name on it "Peek A Boo Death Pole" is more like it https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_blackeye.gif . All people are paying for is a pole with her name. I’m making a bet there’s something in fine print somewhere, saying "Blah blah company is not responsible for any injuries, this includes broken bones that this pole might cause. Once bought, it is your responsibility to use it as safely as you can."
As for the Flirty Girl Fitness videos, I read some good reviews on them so those would probably be worth trying out.
Disclaimer: My reply is solely based on each and every review I have ever read on both poles. I have never tried out either pole before, nor do I ever plan to because I enjoy my never-before broken boned body to remain that way for as long as I can.
