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Well done! It took me a while to grasp the "mechanics" of how to climb, but now I find it so satisfying to be able to climb to the top of the pole at the studio 🙂
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Korinne, there's another thread on here somewhere re Cleo's DVD. As I'm Australia I'm not sure if there are US vendors, though., sorry. Consensus of opinion seems to be that yes, it's worth getting. If you're on facebook there's a "Rockin legs n Abs" group. I did a stretching workshop with Cleo a few weeks ago, which was similar to the DVD, but with personal tuition. I also did a pole workshop with her straight after. I couldn't walk the next day!!
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So pleased for you. Hope it all works out OK.
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So a pole is an offensive thing just because it's upright? (Oops!…..pause while I slap myself on the wrist…..) and a pole if it's horizontal, doesn't resemble a man's penis? What if said man is lying down? I'm sorry, but your Mom's cousin's argument just doesn't cut it. Hopefully she can "agree to disagree" with you over this.
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I am soooo glad I live in Australia, where this sort of thing is not an issue. Poles are just poles, not "stripper" poles.
And I have one other thing to say – "Ladies.Beach.Volleyball." I don't hear anyone complaining about the girls in *that* sport wearing skimpy clothing! And you can't tell me that they wear skimpy clothing for safety reasons! If anything, they should cover up because of the risk of skin cancer 😉
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Thanks Poledreamer 🙂 What you describe is pretty much what I do. I took up Pilates a few months ago, and as a result am more conscious of my posture and engaging my abs. It makes a difference to the way I walk up steps as well 😉 I think the "hunched over" look doesn't look pretty 😉
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It is a bit odd. Could just be a coincidence?. Who broke up with who in their relationship? Do new employees have a "trial period"? If so, then maybe she will decide the job's not for her after all, or maybe management will think she's not right for the job.
You have been there longer than her, so from that point of view you have the 'upper hand" and are in a stronger position if trouble starts to happen, as management should know from your history with them that you aren't a trouble-maker.
As a first step I would try talking to her as a reasonable adult. If she's "feisty" then that could be a sign of insecurity If this doesn't resolve the situation, depending on how understanding the management is, perhaps you could speak to them and explain the situation (though I would be a bit hesitant to do this).
Would it be possible to arrange for you to work different shifts so you don't have to keep seeing each other? You've been there longer, she has "invaded your territory" and you have a right feel uncomfortable.
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This is a blog from a store (in Australia) where I've bought 2 pairs of Pleasers – there's an article on shoes for pole: http://www.highheels.com.au/highheels/shoes-and-costumes/beginners-guide-to-pole-dancing/
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Definitely recommend those with an ankle strap. Some stores which sell pole dance shoes have some they specifically suggest for beginner pole dancers. My first pair had clear uppers. I got them from a store used by the studio I go to…..they advised a heel of 6" with a platform (which I think is about 2"). I've recently had to buy a new pair b/c my first pair (after over a year of poling in them) had stretched and no longer felt safe. I've bought 2 pairs of Pleasers – red cheetah print and a pair with a "tattoo" design on them, and I also got a pair of really pretty blue sparkly ones from Ebay. Would like to try boots next!
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What is the "correct" way to kick your leg as high as you can? I try to ensure that my back is straight when I do this, and my supporting leg with my foot flat on the floor. I have seen others who stand on tiptoe with their supporting leg, and some who curve their back and kind of hunch their shoulders when doing this.
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I have Jamilla's set of 5 DVD's, and I think they're very good. (I've also had a private with her – she focuses on gradual progress and perfecting a move before you go on to something more difficult). I also have Alethea's 2 stretching DVDs. I have been told that some of the stretching techniques she uses are not recommended. (The "ballistic" ones I think – but I'm happy to be corrected!) I have a few other DVDs as well. I find DVDs to be a convenient resource. I live in Australia, so downloading lessons can be expensive and slow 🙁
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Thanks, I've just "Liked" your f/b page 🙂
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I tend to either look worried or serious (because I'm concentrating!)
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Sorry to keep going on about Bobbi's, but one instructor in particular reminds us to smile when we're in a move (especially if it's a painful one!) I won't give away what she actually says, but basically it's "think of something you really like"
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Just had a reply from the website I wanted to order from (I sent them an email querying the postal charges) and they said pretty much there was nothing they could do and apologising they couldnt help at this time. I think they are members on this site but I don’t want to “name and shame” as I am pretty sure I’ve seen posts on here saying how helpful they are with sizing etc.