[Jamof3]

If you can, I would strongly recommend Veena’s lessons. They’re so thorough and are taught in an order to build the right strength from one move to the next. I had taken lessons in a studio for a couple months about 2yrs ago and just started poleing again on my own a few months ago. The instruction I got off Veena’s lessons made me realize how many moves I was doing wrong, and suddenly my strength & moves all improved sooo much w/her instruction.

[Jamof3]

I think at 39, your husband is far from old even though he's a bit older than you. It's so silly that these people would think less of you or that you were only in the relationship to be a gold digger, because you've had a child together. Having a baby with someone is the ultimate commitment!  I think more than anything they must be jealous of your youth. My advice is to just be confident with who you are and what you enjoy. If you're confidant and accepting of yourself, they'll have no option but to accept you themselves. I bet a number of them would love to learn pole dancing themselves!