[Jill]

I squeeze my ankles. I used to fall on my head too until I started concentrating on squeezing at my ankles, which makes the rest of my legs squeeze too. Practice low on the pole so if you start to fall you can put a hand on the floor. It took me a LONG time to get this move! But once I focused on my ankles I’ve nailed it every time since and am totally comfortable in it now!

[Jill]

OMG! I just saw the interview on E! and the host said she took pole dancing lessons to play a "hooker"! Excuse me? Was that a Freudian slip?

[Jill]

I was there and it was an AMAZING show! My favorites were Leigh Ann’s "Little Red Corvette" dance and Jenyne’s. Although I thought all the dancers were awesome https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_thumright.gif and I loved watching everyone — even the dancers during pole cleanings!

Only bummer was that I didn’t end up meeting anyone from here on SV https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif

[Jill]

Thanks for the info and helpful links!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

[Jill]

Polergirl,

Thanks for sharing this video with us! I agree, polished transitions, floor, etc. are just as critical to good pole dancing as tricks are. Doing trick after trick wears me out! Although I’m sure her moves are just as tiring.

I’m inspired now to work on my transitions & spins! My favorite in this video is at :45 when she the combo of spins that starts w/ the corkscrew. I have to try that one!

[Jill]

Thanks for the responses! You know I just watched my vids on my computer and they are much more close-up than I thought, so moving the camera farther away will work much better than I thought. Only problem is that I live in a one-bedroom apartment and don’t have much space to work with https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mad.gif

Well at least I’m not the only one… https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif

[Jill]

My bf of 5 yrs who I live with does not like poledancing in general, or watching me do it at home https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif

I’m wondering why or what exactly he doesn’t like about it? I don’t care for baseball because it’s boring to watch, but wouldn’t mind at all if my boyfriend played it. It sounds like there is something else behind it.

I don’t mean to brag or rub it in, but rather show how it can be a positive in a relationship. My boyfriend is very supportive of my pole dancing, and I actually dance at a bikini club! (Although, he doesn’t like the lap dancing part, but he doesn’t make it a problem…at my club they are very G-rated, and I’m not much for "hustling".) The fact that he doesn’t judge me for what I do, and supports my interests is what I love about him! I have a 9 to 5 career as a graphic designer and don’t even have to dance at a club, but I do it for the excitement of pole dancing on stage and I love the people! It’s not the typical "strip club", it’s more like "Cheers" for Hollywood locals.

Anyhow, back to the subject, pole dancing is something my boyfriend and I actually enjoy together! I joke to him how lucky he is that his gf "drags" him to the strip club! We frequently go to another local bikini club because I LOVE to watch the dancers (Jumbo’s Clown Room — some of L.A.’s most talented pole dancers work there!), and of course it’s fun for him. He’s also taking me to the Pole Show at Bespun in L.A. this Saturday. His only concern w/ me pole dancing is safety — he convinced me to get Veena’s lessons so I can learn properly to avoid injuries.

I hope my rambling about my situation helps in some way, or even the way you look at it. Bottom line is that pole dancing builds self-confidence, is great exercise which increases mental and physical health, and is fun! Making yourself happy is necessary for any healthy relationship, and you obviously care about your boyfriend’s feelings. He’s lucky to have you, and I have a feeling things will work out fine! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif

[Jill]

I’m going too!! (I actually live right down the street.) I LOVE watching all their videos, I’m sure seeing them perform live will be amazing!! And very inspiring https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif

I’m thinking about the workshop(s) too . . .

I’m looking forward to meeting those of you who will be there!

[Jill]

I’ve worked in bikini and topless clubs, so I don’t know how fully nude works, but I wear either sexy underwear & bra, or bikini — not a regular bathing suit, a bikini made for exotic dancing. Try discountstripper.com. There are also sets w/ little skirts that are cute and fun to have something more to take off on stage. Most girls wear Pleaser (or similar brands) platform shoes or boots. Many girls also wear leg warmers or thigh-high stockings, although that may cause slippage on the pole.

You’ll want heavy, dramatic make-up, and probably leave your hair all down.

Most important, wear what makes you feel sexy and be as creative as you want! Have fun and let us know if you win, or how it goes!

[Jill]

I think the SV video awards (SVA’s) are a great idea! Can we work in a red carpet somehow?? This would really light a fire under me to get a camcorder and start posting vids!

[Jill]

Soooo I invert, caterpillar, and try to support myself a little better each time…and pray https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif

Hi poledanceromance, I just recently got my ayesha (forearm AND elbow grips), by doing exactly what you’re doing! Keep at it!! It won’t be long now. I thought I’d never get stable enough to hold it, but now it’s no problem. While learning I kept switching between elbow/forearm grips because I couldn’t get either one, and now have both! I got forearm first, and within a week I was doing elbow. It’s a fun trick, and has such a big payoff when you finally get it. I think you’re next!

[Jill]

I started at age 35, but have a dance/gymnastics background (from high school), and have been running consistently for the last 10 yrs. I’ve been pole dancing about a year-and-a-half, but so wish I would’ve started years ago! I started because I needed a second income (I’m a full-time graphic designer), and made the decision to become a stripper (just bikini tho)! I immediately became obsessed w/ pole dancing and am so happy that I found this great hobby!

[Jill]

I am SO going to do this! My first challenge on this site! And I am getting a camcorder before the end of the month. This challenge seems like a great way to build endurance — which is something I really need.

I can’t wait to see everyone’s videos!

Good luck! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif

[Jill]

ok, im worried to post something because i dont want to offend anyone, so i’m bringing it up now and if anyone is uncomfortable i wont post it.

I won’t be offended no matter how you dance. Pole dancing is sexy and should make you feel sexy, although it doesn’t have to be — it can be anything you want. I think the sexy/sensual style of pole dancing is beautiful, and a true art, and am really anxious to see your vids. Don’t hold back! I’ll bet most people on this site wouldn’t be offended, but rather appreciate the contribution! I’m going to keep my eye out… https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_bounce.gif

[Jill]

Congratulations!! (Veena, you don’t look old enough to be married for 13 years https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif )

Have a wonderful anniversary, and thank you for all the work and dedication you put into studioveena.com! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif