MeganJoan
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Oh and btw I did stop following this thread, but was then tagged by someone else in another community. Literally laughing in abject horror at what is happening here and the comments being made.
The arrogance of the ignorance here, and how quickly Veena was on to discourage anyone from giving a second thought about the social implications of their costume choices means I am done with this place. As are many others in the aforementioned other community.
Enjoy guys! Laters.
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If you’re going to say something to me then at least have the backbone to actually say it, rather than caveat it with a version of “I’m sorry but”.
I will continue to advocate for social awareness, especially by those I positions of social privilege. And I will continue to insist that we be mindful of how we behalf and listen first and foremost to the people groups whose culture we are taking from. I really couldn’t give a shit if that makes you, or anyone else who would rather ignore the issue, uncomfortable.
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It’s pretty simple to know what will offend people, actually. You listen to them. If you choose to ignore the large amount of articles, blog posts, and other ways of speaking out from people of culture groups where they specifically say that white people appropriating specific elements of their culture is not okay then you’re part of the problem.
Define racism however you like. Put whatever spin on it you want to help you sleep better. Respectfully disagree as you see fit, but that doesn’t make you right, and it doesn’t stop you perpetuating the actual racism that you’re pretending isn’t racism.
Not replying to you again. This while thread is gross.
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The entire point of the Bad Kitty article was that your intentions actually DON’T matter and that if the people groups that you’re dressing up as find it offensive then don’t dress up as them. It’s really that simple. I personally find it completely not okay that there is a thread on here with a bunch of people NOT of the people groups being discussed assuring each other that as long as they don’t mean harm then it’s all okay.
No, you should not use sugar skulls for your piece, as there are many other ways to symbolise death. No, you should not dress up in tribal inspired dress unless you are a part of an actual tribe. There is no reason, however, that you cannot use tribal themed music, wear brown clothing, and explore the music as you dance. If you know that you are going to offend the people groups that hold these concepts dear to their heart, and you know that it’s just sprucing up a performance that really doesn’t need it, then why are you choosing to abuse your place in society by knowingly offending people anyway?
If you’re searching for loopholes as long anything that’s not an outright caricature is an issue then you’re being part of the problem.
Yes, people have always appropriated different cultures throughout time. Appropriated is a BAD word. That’s not a good thing. And it hasn’t been just people, it’s been white people. Which is why it’s especially grating that this thread is a group of white people reassuring each other that continued appropriation can be justified. It can’t be. Re-read the article. It’s not a personal attack on you, but if you read it and then still find a way to justify that it’s all okay based on your intentions then we have a problem. Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you should. You can go ahead and tell yourselves that people are just too sensitive and will “find a way” to be offended by anything. But being offended isn’t a great way to feel. Majority of people don’t go through life looking for ways to experience deeply negative emotions. So maybe it’s time to stop blaming being hurt and offended on those who we are hurting and offending. Maybe it’s time that we instead stopped doing the things that hurt and offend them.
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Thanks for the kind words everyone
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I use VivaVideo to edit stuff to post on Instagram. You can cut the length of videos, splice different ones together, make the picture square if you need to (for instagram), and even add music from mp3s you have on your own.
You can also add dodgy themes and filters but I use the instagram one. The only tip if give is to use Pro Edit mode rather than Video Edit and if you need to make the picture square chuck on a theme then go back to none and it’ll still save th squareness. Hope this is what you were after!
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Poletice works like a mask for your hands. Basically you put it on then wait until it’s dried fully. I usually leave it another 5 minutes. Then you rinse it off and your hands will be clean. It will stop the sweat and the more you use it the better it works.
Another good one for that is tite grip. You put it on, leave it 20 mins to an hour then wash it off.I actually trialled the towelette for Mighty Grip and even I can’t remember what it was called! If you email Joel at sales@mightygrip.com he should be able to help you out with a name.
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Rubbing alcohol will be fine. In Australia we use methylated spirits in a spray bottle as well (rubbing alcohol is ethanol here, so I’m assuming that is the same elsewhere).
Another great trick to cleaning poles is through steam. Veena has a tutorial on it using a proper steam cleaner but I’ve used an iron before and it worked great. You just work in sections steaming and then wiping clean with a microfiber cloth. It leaves it really clean and grippy.
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I upgraded to a TG from chrome and I love it. My favourite finish is probably brass but when it’s hot and humid I stick to brass too well and take off skin on my side, so I went the TG and don’t regret it for a second!
I’m actually really keen to get a silicone pole but that’s another story!
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After doing an intense back and quad stretch session day before last followed by follow up back session plus hips and middle splits yesterday I feel as though I am dying. Sooooo I’ve decided to buy a foam roller and use it during my hour long PT break today. It’s going to be super intense buy I know I’ll feel better afterwards and probably get totally addicted. Wish me luck!
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My newest and biggest tattoo is a work in progress but here are some photos of it
having to stop poling on the area I get done for a few weeks is lame, but I love being able to show it off in my pole wear since its not really visible the rest of the time. Men and women tend to have different pain thresholds but everybody is slightly different as well. The general consensus is that lower stomach is one of the worst places, but for me it was next to nothing. Most painful place for me is back of the upper thigh and butt.
Pain from being on the bone is also very different to skin pain IMO. I find pain from sensitive skin to be less bareable, but I also have a very high pain tolerance.
If you’re really concerned take panadol, ibuprofen and codeine beforehand (yes all three) and it’ll really numb the pain because you’re covering all three pathways. I can easily do a four hour session this way. Also, drink soft drink and/or eat lollies and you’ll be fine (it helps stop you going into shock).
Yay, tattoos!
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My favourite is http://indipolewear.com
I love, love, love their stuff. I tried them out instead of Bad Kitty because they’re an Australian brand and fell completely in love with the styles. They fit well and stay in place. I also love that it’s a new company so feedback is taken on board and I love the feeling of helping someone start up, as well as simply supporting Australian brands.
I’ve tried a few brands of shorts and these are by far my favourite. They just fit nicely and don’t I’ve around while I’m dancing. I also love the feel of the tops. They have a bunch of new colours and styles being released tomorrow, which I’m super excited about!
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I may be being naive here but what would be stopping anyone from just signing up with PayPal to use a credit card through there? When I signed up for my account it was free and I have credit cards, debit cards and a bank account attached.
I have had paid lessons in the past but as I go to a physical studio I found i wasn’t using them just because my at home pole time was about practising what I learn during the week at lessons rather than learning new things.
Next year I might be moving somewhere with only one pole studio and rather than going there I’m considering using SV lessons instead as I won’t be working full time and it’s much better value for money plus more convenient.
Also, I’m super unco so I feel more confident learning from online lessons now that I have a better grasp of where my body is in space and on the pole.
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Absolutely! There’s a woman at my studio about your age and she loves it.
I see zero reason why you can’t pick up pole dancing just as well as any exercise regime -
Oh wow, thanks for the tip on the platform height! Ridiculous to think that a higher overall height might actually be kinder on my foot because of a higher platform. I hadn’t really paid attention to that aspect, but not that you mention it it seems like an obvious thing to check!
I’ve looked into Ellies before but decided against them as I do have a wide foot and usually require half sizes, so Pleasers for me well.
Plus, Pleasers are easy to get my hands on in Australia. I’ve done some looking into The Highest Heel and it’ll cost me more to get a pair, but I’m still interested in hearing feedback about them!
Thanks for the info guys
