PoleLizard89
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*poler*….not piper..wtf?
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I’m not sure how much advice I can give on this. I just push my weight out away from the pole. But usually I just take it….I’m trying to get used to spinning faster. I am a barefoot piper as well though I am expecting my first pair if pleasers tomorrow. What exactly are you trying to do on the pole that makes you overspin?
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Everything is cool now. We have talked about it since and he understands why it pissed me off so much. He thought he was being cute and funny and maybe if the timing was right it would’ve been alright…but damn it if he doesn’t have the worst.timing!
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Quan- I don’t take BS either. But trust me I have showed him “hoe” but he enjoyed it ….
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So I’m looking into getting my 1st pair of shoes. I was wondering what y’all thought about sizing in regards to Ellie and pleasers? Are they true to size or do they run big/small? Thanks guys!
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Pankake no boundaries overstepped whatsoever! I appreciate all of your thoughts 100%. I love how complicated things can be…not. We both need some help with things but we’ll be okay. Boundaries are very important and we have some. I understand what you said about rushing to the “sex” part. He is bad for that. We will be working on this and continue to work on it. I sooo appreciate your words of advice. Thanks so much!
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Thank you guys for all of your input….it’s much appreciated.Okay so first off we discussed this when he came home for lunch and he understands why I got pissed and he didn’t realize he was being such an ass. Let’s just say miscommunication combined with bad timing on his part and me just wanting to get my ass in bed is what fueled our spat. Anyway let me clarify about him pulling his schlong out because it seems really bad when I read what I had typed. Okay I’m like an old engine; I need to be warmed up before you take me for a spin..he doesn’t really get that. so he will pull it out and want some and to me that’s not a turn on. So he gets rejected and doesn’t like it…who does? I try to be sensual and when he doesn’t want it I get rejected ….grrr I hate rejection. Anyway he doesn’t force me or anything like that. Sexually there are some things that are awkward for him and he just doesn’t “get”. Both of us were sexually abused as children but I will spare the details and just say that what he went through is terrifying and absolutely terrible. Also I promise I am in no danger with him..we do wrestle but that about as physical as it gets. It releases tension. I was in an abusive relationship before we started dating and I will never go through that again. Oh and Azblanco…yeah we call each other all kinds of things in the heat of the moment …his timing was fucking terrible last night and I wasn’t having it. I think we need a vacation with no children. I love him very much and he takes Carr of my son and I. He is an awesome guy. He still has issues he needs to work out as do I.
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Dwiizie-Lol..
dense as a marble!! Are we living the same life!? My God! What you described is almost exactly the same as what goes on in my household! I feel like I could explode sometimes. He is soooo unromantic and when I give him signals and try to be sensual…he sits there like a cave man or is too tired…but if he pulls his d#ck out and pretty much expects me to.jump on….and I.don’t then something must be wrong with me!! Men still drag their knuckles when they walk! -
CG- I will be voicing my opinion later today…but gently because I know how man feelings get hurt so easily. Goodness!
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I would definitely spend a little extra on a pole that has both static and spin modes. You will want to learn how to use the pole on spinny mode in no time and will fully regret not being able to if you just buy a static pole.