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  • Saphyre

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    January 21, 2016 at 4:09 am in reply to:

    I had it on my forehead from falling out of a Russian Split. I use Maderma scar care every night. You can find it at most Pharmacies.

  • Saphyre

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    November 26, 2015 at 3:22 am in reply to: Black Friday

    🤑

  • Saphyre

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    November 25, 2015 at 9:47 pm in reply to: Glitter beards!

    My hubby just grew his first beard. Hmmmm.

  • Saphyre

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    November 24, 2015 at 2:09 am in reply to: Help

    Everyone’s body chemistry is different, so you may need to experiment to see what works best for you. The weather, and the pole material also come into play. I have sweaty hands in general. I like to use Dove Clinical Strength Deoderant on my hands before I go to bed. If it’s a humid day, I may also use Girlie Grip, which is similar to Dry Hands. Do you pole at a studio? Maybe they have some grip aides you can try. Otherwise, you can buy them online.

  • Saphyre

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    November 24, 2015 at 1:30 am in reply to: Weight Loss After 50

    I’m 51. I was always thin was I was younger, but after 45 my weight became an issue. In the last 3 months I have gained 10 pounds. Hormonal fluctuations and the aging process makes everything so much harder! Thank you for sharing!!

  • Saphyre

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    January 26, 2015 at 1:33 pm in reply to: Chair Dance Tutorials

    Yes. just a basic, metal folding chair.

  • Saphyre

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    January 25, 2015 at 10:53 pm in reply to: Chair Dance Tutorials

    That will be soooo wonderful, Veena!!! I just bought a chair yesterday. I am hoping to incorporate a bit into the performance I’m doing in April.

  • Saphyre

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    December 4, 2014 at 12:00 pm in reply to: My mother is dying. 🙁

    I must respond on FB. I’m so sorry.

  • Saphyre

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    November 17, 2014 at 12:11 am in reply to: S.A.D.

    It’s has been cloudy for a while and we already had our first snow. I’ll look into those lights, Chem. They sound interesting. I cannot go through another winter like last year. I’ll want to divorce myself! Going to
    Increase my SSRI as well. Just for the winter.

  • Saphyre

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    September 13, 2014 at 9:07 pm in reply to: Need a pep talk for tomorrow’s photo shoot

    Don is wonderful to work with. Here is my advise. ~Make sure you are not at all hungry. ~Have a list of some moves you would like to do. Look through some of your own photos or vids and pick what you like the best. ~ Get some floor/non-pole shots. I forgot to do that! ~ Have a couple of outfits. Sexy ones, and a little less sexy, lol. ~ Have fun! I agree that it will be fabulous to capture this moment in your life!!

  • Saphyre

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    August 22, 2014 at 10:31 pm in reply to: Tribute dance to Layla

    Ah! You beat me to it!! So honored to be part of this tribute!

  • Saphyre

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    August 4, 2014 at 6:28 pm in reply to: Midwest in 2 weeks…who is going???

    Me!!

  • Saphyre

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    July 15, 2014 at 12:54 pm in reply to: Social media, inspiring or discouraging?

    Yes, Veena! I love this video….it really speaks volumes.

  • Saphyre

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    July 14, 2014 at 12:16 pm in reply to: Social media, inspiring or discouraging?

    ~~~Social Media Feeds?- I limit my pole friend and follow lists to people I have met either through SV or a workshop. To me, social media is a personal relationship and I want to be invested in their journey! It doesn’t matter if it’s a 3 second clip or a full dance.

    ~~~Encouraged or Discouraged? – As an “older” poler, I am always encouraged. I know what my limitations are (although they weren’t as limited as I first thought!) so I don’t get discouraged by what I watch. Ever.

    ~~~~Video Clip or Dance? – I admit that most times I would rather see a clip, but that’s usually because of time constraints. I am awed by a full dance and there is nothing like a live performance!!!

    One of the things I find myself thinking of repeatedly is the difference in the level of “difficulty” in just a few short years. My first Midwest Convention (2012) was a much different experience than 2013. More gymnastics, more janeiros and fonjis…Don’t get me wrong. I think these tricks are impressive, but I enjoy the lyrical, emotional, artistic form of pole. (I do know what you mean, Charley!)

    I will be performing for my first time this October. I said I would never do that. The ONLY reason I am going to is that it is a local venue for a charity. Most of the audience will be non-polers. I would never perform at one of the conventions, mainly because I won’t put that kind of pressure on myself.

    I can appreciate where pole is going, if for no other reason than having an outlet for those who want to go in that direction. However, I do hope we can maintain some of the “easy-going” forms of it. “What would Layla do?” Indeed!!!!!!!! Have fun, be yourself, and fuck ’em if they don’t like what you do. Be a Goddess!!!

  • Saphyre

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    June 24, 2014 at 11:29 am in reply to: Wow!! Sooo many new faces but I still see some old too!t

    Welcome back!

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