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SaschaPoles where did you find the Dummies For Pole at I want to know.
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The book is Penelope in the Divine
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Its about a girl and pole dancing. It has some other stuff in it that I’m going to be quite about because I don’t want to ruin it. Its a great book and I can’t put it down I have to force my self just to go to sleep. What is the one that your ordered who is it by and can I get it at Barnes and Noble.
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Its not a guide to Pole Dance its an actual read Penelope in the Divine by T.S. Valenzuela. Its a great read you can buy it art Amazon.com you should check it out and see if that’s what you might want to get into
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Where is her studio and what is the web site I want to know
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I started about two months ago using a thick pole at my work for support it took a while because I was bending my back and it was stiff and just not used to it. I did two different kinds.
I would start in a stand with legs width apart bending to the left and staying in that position and going to the right in a half circle but staying in the bend. But as far as my back would allow me, I would listen to my back because you never want to hurt it.
And then in the same standing position as the one on top I would stretch my arm up towards the ceiling and bend backwards slowly as far as my back would allow me like a Ballerina. I did these like 2 to 3 times a week and then the more my back got flexible and less stiff I was able to bend further down. That's what I have done in the past to get me where I am today. Maybe it will work for you Runemist 34. Give is a try and let me know what you think.
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Blaque do you use any equipment
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And trust me when I say that this is hard to talk to any one. I live in Utah a very very very closed minded state. So if you found someone who is open and all hell ya about it I say you found a winner and try and keep him.
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I agree with everyone you should tell him as soon as possibile as soon as you got all the vibes of is he going to judge you or make you feel less then what you are.
I think you shold say your are Arial Polist and hopfully he wont think your a stripper. I think sharing this with any one is hard I just recently started talking about it with my family who you would think would support you in anything you do but they were alittle closed minded and I was bullied " your just learning to strip" It was hard to listen to it.
This is a part of all our lives when you enter the world of Pole, your so excited that you want to share it with everyone and have them accept you for doing it. How ever here in America the stigma of this awesome excerise / beautiful art of dance we will forever be judged.
None of this is to discourage you and I dont think it will at all. Thereis alot of great advice going on here. you just might have to dive right into with him and say Im not a stripper and if we continue to date please dont expect me to give you a show all the time. straight up and forward and blunt sometimes is just the way to go with this.
Good Luck Lady xoxo keep us updated. I want to know the out come on this.