[Tovah]

There's alot of good advice in here for you. I would agree that you terminate the relationship and for him to move out and if he love's you the way he has said he does then he should earn it back take you out and treat you well. The guy, now wait , the man is 31 yrs old and can't even rent an apartment…really!? He is not responsible and to me he is a sponge and a controller.

He is treating you like this while under your parents roof *yikes* . I would fear at how he would be with children or even pay child support should your marriage not work out. I would actually go and see his parents and evaluate. I hope you go in with your eyes open and also see if he has any previous child(ren) that he isn't providing for. 

He has no respect for you at all. He is getting everything for free and he basically doesn't have to work for anything.

I don't know how the laws about co-habitation but count your blessings that you don't have to split everything 50/50 and no children in the relationship.  Finances are the biggest reasons why people divorce.

To me bottom line is: He is not a man and until he proves that he is a man then I wouldn't even give this guy a second look or chance.

This may not be what you want to hear and I am sorry about that.

There is a man out there that is more than worthy for your hand.

You didn't say how your parents feel about all of this and in their defense they probably have weighed the pros and the cons and so, this is why they are letting both of you live with them in order to protect you. Then I could be wrong and they could be enablers. I believe it's the first thought for this situation.

I would focus on your goals and your cupcake bus. and move on.

I wish you all the best and don't mean to hurt your feelings here either as there's alot of dynamics to look at and to evaluate.

 

[Tovah]

I agree.

At least 7 feet circumferance.

I am only saying this as until someone hits you with their shoe when your both spinning and then collide. The collision may not have been that painful except I just was cleared from my cast and that fracture was freshly healed but tender and this set me back another wk and going to work with 12 hr shifts …and for some of us have to work and not all of us are short either.

[Tovah]

@darlingdeerest

LOL…What is BDSM?

You can all laugh but I don't know.

[Tovah]

I dunno…It seems many have read '50 Shades of Grey' and it's sequel .

There's the trilogy that I read "The Girl With TheDragon Tattoo", and the other Trilogy "Hunger Games"…

It could be a November Trilogy or Shades of November…we've had wind, snow, rain, Englands weather here…

I dunno still…but I think I have a theme going on here.

[Tovah]

At work an RPN asks me to assess a pt.

She was a very vague historian and being all over the map and not making sense. I then direct her to sit down as I had checked for bruising from head to toes.

I then directed her to her chair to make her sit down and she stops dead in her aged steps and says "I have something to show you" . She was very insistent on having me turn her around and honestly didn't want to go around the whole thing again as she is confused with moment of clarity.

She directs us to this drawer and hands me this object. I asked her what it was doing there. Of course she couldn't answer me. mmm….thinking and saying it looks like a diaphragm but a little bigger. I have never seen this before but anyway she handed me her pessary.

I am concluding that the alleged fall was her hanging by the sink trying to pick this thing either out of the toilet rolled under the sink…and so forth . As one must know too that she was also constipated and might of pushed it out.

I washed my hands so much today. I sure hope she doesn't have any STD's .

Apparently, perhaps the Dr didn't push it in far enough. 

[Tovah]

I ended up doing a bit of OT yesterday and so, no skyping. I am done at 3pm today and thinking if 7 or 8 pm is ok for you, Pole gal? Let me know. TY skype name: lise.lang1

[Tovah]

Who wants to skype with me tonight? I want to play on my 45mm and break it in.

[Tovah]

More than one way to break a man…lol No Mrs Bobbit needed.

[Tovah]

@firebird , You made me laugh at your first and second response. The article you found is really good that I almost wanna share it on fb with my orthopedic friend that is a surgeon. LOL

[Tovah]

@firebird , You made me laugh at your first and second response. The article you found is really good that I almost wanna share it on fb with my orthopedic friend that is a surgeon. LOL

[Tovah]

I had a patient that was easy on the eyes that came to the  ER & of course he had to go through  triage first…lol Trying to explain he was sore in his private parts and not in a confidential setting at triage.

Anyways, it turned out that he had a fractured penis as a result of having sex with a girl. The girl was no where to be seen. 

He was then admitted in our holding area  because we didn't have any beds  and at report time we all giggled when we came to talking about him.

Then of course we nurses have to assess him for pain swelling & to make sure he peed…because of a fractured penis.

This whole scenario is so funny that none of it is made up and it actually happened.

BONERhttps://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif

[Tovah]

I am glad you ^ found this post.

Thanks.

[Tovah]

Maybe you will all like the title of this rcepe that when I was about to put it away https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif

SUGAR STRIPS

1/2 cup (125g) unsalted butter

1/3 cup sugar

1 egg

1 cup sifted flour

1/4 teaspoon salt

1 egg yolk

1 teaspoon water

1/2 cup (60 g)ground nuts

1. Cream butter. Add sugar and the egg and beat  until light and fluffy.

2. Add flour and salt and mix well. Chill

3. Roll out to a thickness of 1/8 inch (3mm).Trimm edges and place on a cookie sheet uncut. Brush with beated egg yolk mixed with water. Sprinkle with a little sugar and nuts.

4. Bake in a 350 F (180 C) oven for 15 minutes. Cut into 3/4 x 2 1/2 inch

Makes 7 dozens

[Tovah]

 

WE CAN'T FORGET OUT PETS

 

DOG /CAT COOKIES (got this out of a magazine that they were giving away at the pet store)

2 Ingredients

 

-1 cup flour or 1 cup wheat germ

-1 cup of your favorite quality dog or cat canned food

 In keeping with the season, we've chosen Fruitables' Pumpkin Digestive Supplement

 

>Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. Lightly grease a baking sheet

>Combine the ingredients and mix thoroughly

>You can either roll the misture into 1-inch balls or flatten mixture with a rolling pin.

>Use a fun animal themed cookie cutters.

>Place the balls on greased baking sheet and flatten them with the back of the fork.

>Bake for 25-30 minutes

>Remove and cool on wire rack.

 

VARIATION

For flavour and to ward off fleas, add a touch of garlic puree or powder

 

OR

 

add 2 tablespoons of ground flaxseed for a shiny coat.

[Tovah]

I found this one too. It's a fun one https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

Scripture Cake

1 1/2 cups Judges 5:25
3 cups Jeremiah 6:20
6 Jeremiah 17:11
3 1/2 cups 1 Kings 4:22
2 tsp Amos 4:5
A pinch of Matthew 5:13
Several tsp of 2 Chronicles 9:9
1 cup Genesis 24:17
1 Tbs 1 Samuel 14:25
2 cups dried Nahum 3:12
2 cups 1 Samuel 30:12
2 cups silvered or chopped Numbers 17:8

Follow Solomon's advice, Proverbs 23:14

Translates into CONTEMPORARY RECIPE

1 1/2 cups butter
3 cups sugar
6 eggs
3 1/2 cups flour
2 tsp baking powder
1 tsp each ground nutmeg, cloves and cinamon
A pinch of salt
1 cup of water
1 Tbs honey
2 cups chopped dried figs
2 cups raisins
2 cups slivered or chopped almonds

Cream together butter and sugar. Beat in eggs one at a time, beating well after each addition. Sift together flour, baking powder, salt and spices. Alternately add flour and water to butter mixture. Add honey, figs, raisins and almonds. Mix well. Turn into two well greased 9x5x3 inch loaf pans. Bake at 350 degrees F about 60 minutes. Let cake cool for 30 minutes in pans before turning them onto a rack. Makes 2 loaves.