[exdiva]

OMG i couldn’t agree more, but veena babe…where might the stretchmarks and saggy skin be? if you have ANY we cannot see it, that is for damn sure, and i mean that in the BEST possible way, cause noone would ever know it x’s 4, especially, bless u. i find that ones i had earlier were much more forgiving, and though i’m thankful, because i don’t have stretch marks on my belly, i make up for that, in other ways in other places if UKWIM, so i didn’t come thru my last one unscaved, for sure, i’ll share before and after pics, at a later date, so all women know IT HAPPENS TO EVERYONE, and mom’s are beautiful, pregnancy and childbirth can change us, but we are still sexy, normal, and vibrant women, whom can pole dance and feel good about who we are, inside of our own skin..no matter WHAT!

FOXY- so true the price of motherhood, but well well worth it, when you look at the product of it all! just part of being a woman..i’d like to see MEN getting some stretch marks, and cellulite, and saggy pecks, lol, if that is possible, and see how they would cope. oh plz they couldn’t even cope with the needle to draw blood for the BETA pregnancy test, lol. HA, what us women go thru

veena- my belly used to go IN, never flat nor out, so i got you there…your changes are quite subtle, because we don’t see them, but at home, under a microcope, i know you can see, like we all do on ourselves, things others do not. my boobs used to be bigger and perkier. they aren’t horrible, cause i wear a bra 24-7 yup, you heard right, ever since 14, BUT they are not what i remember, and that saddens me, but what can you do? the price of children, and the price is worth it, or we wouldn’t keep on goin, lol. but i was ALWAYS a twig before my 3rd and i was 5’6 and 104 when i got pregnant, totally too skinny and wanted to gain, and now, i feel VERY fat compared to my ‘norm’, even though i wantd to be bigger, i’m just never happy, so now i wanna be smaller, but i don’t wanna lose muscle. its a weird odd thing, but seein my vids sometimes makes me sick, but that was a choice i made, now to undo it, it would be unhealthy, and i dont wanna go there again

FOXY (again) my last one, 1st two no marks, but the last one took 2 cup sizes away, and the hips and but..stretchmarks..i sware i even see cellulite forming, tho hubby will not confirm, i dont wanna see it, but i think i do, and WAH. you are right, i don’t care if i look good for having kids, and people could and might look worse, it’s not much comfort when you gotto live inside of YOU all the time, ya know?

btw i love your last statement.,…flawlessness is a myth, even supermodels get photoshopped, and every mark, shows a story, and makes us who we are today..we are all imperfect!

GLITTERHIPS, i think you look strong, and powerful. i think you will handle pregnancy and birth just fine. you don’t have to be a size zero to be in top notch shape, and you are extremely toned!

moral of the story..we gotto make do, find acceptance in what we do have, and not for what we don’t, or for things we cannot change, cause all it does, is drive you COMPLETELY batty in the end, and w/o purpose.

xoxo shelly