[geminiangel]

what a great thread..well actually being the mom maybe can bring a mom's point of view into this.  My 26 year old daughte actually was an exotic dancer and from her descriptions it wasn't completely nude..but i am sure she had to grind on some laps here and there.  Although she had fun..i wasn't that crazy about it…but she liked it and it paid her bills. Mostly i felt bad for her because she had to take so much crap for it..and it did bring her down…she is a much better person than that and i hated when she told me how people treated her at times…well, she got interested in pole dancing and sent me some links to Veena's videos on youtube and i was totally entranced and became hooked on the idea…i have been a non paying member on this forum for a year or so…but finally i took the plunge and bought year membership and my pole….sooo soon i will a poler too!

 

I have to laugh when my daughter tells me of her stories of getting help to install her pole in her living room and reactions she gets from people when they see it…

today..i posted a link on facebook of Veena dancing with her children…seriously the cutest video i have ever seen…and also broke it to my FB world that i was interested in poling and prefacing it with i know how it can have a stigma..OMG! the postive reactions were amazing..i had so many girlfriends that want to do it, have been doing it and can't wait til i get my pole up so they can come work out with me…

so the moral to the story is…hang in there…you girls in your 20's..really in the end it doesn't matter what any one thinks..and fortunately as you grow older..i am now 45…you really just don't care any more..and life gets more and more fun..and you get crazier and want to try all the things that you either wanted to and never got around to…or the things you were too chicken to try to do..haha!  So have fun..this is a part of who you are..and bllllll to all those naysayers and humbuggers..so go out and have some fun…and i am sooo excited about this! I can't wait until my daughter hears that in got a pole too….the only thing..is how do i break this to my husband?…hhhmmm he was supportive of my bellydancing..so i am pretty sure he will just laugh about this one too!https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif