DeaconJungleCatPoles
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hehe Thanks Roxy!! I noticed that too. All those folks were cursing me out, calling me all kinds of names, and then had to the nerve to tell me I was going to Hell!!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif It was quite funny actually. That one girl even felt so guilty she removed the profanity out of her name lol people these days!
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Oh god that interview was awesome!!!! All the interviews are nice!! It is so cute getting to know all these extra little things about other polers. It really helps to show that no matter how dynamite and incredible they are at poling that underneath they still are human. I am so touched!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_razz.gif
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Thank you drkfaery!! I love you too!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif *hugz*
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That was beautiful Foxy. Had me in tears. Thank you so much sis! I really love you. And thank you too RaRa!! You are all superior beings to me.
Not to throw a "but" in here but I have been thinking. A comment made by a young lady was something along the lines that she felt bad because she was having lustful thoughts during my performance and that if I was going to Hell she was going too for watching the whole thing. She may have said it in joke but if I do indeed inspire lustful thoughts (which is extremely hard for me to believe given my low self esteem) that maybe it is blasphemous? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_scratch.gif If people are missing the message because they are too turned on then maybe I really shouldn’t be posting it. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_scratch.gif I’m so torn! I just want to do the right thing. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif
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Hehe thank ya amcut and Foxy!
You gals are too amazing. I going to stay encouraged. I know everything happens for a reason. I feel like my entire life prepared me for this moment. This isn’t the first time I’ve been blackballed by society and I’m certain it won’t be the last. But it’s never been this large a scale. Maybe it was too soon, or maybe it was time. It doesn’t really matter now. It’s out and I have to walk the path that’s been laid before me. Whether I chose this path willingly or God led me here, I must walk it. For all of us. I will try to be brave for you all. You all inspire me so much. You are such beautiful people *hehe crying now* and you all deserve the world’s admiration and respect. Please pray for my safety. Not that I’ve been formally threathened but if something should ever happen to me know that I love you all like family and I’m doing this all for you.
I love each and every one of you.
J.C.
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Ok yeah french kissing an animal is sick https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_puke_r.gif LOL
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hehehe amcut
no need to explain to me, both my dog and cat slept in the bed with me when I had pets https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif I did have a partner actually in past who said, "It’s either me or the dog." I packed their bags for them! They had to go https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif No discussion. But then again, they were a bad lay https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif told you I know how yall think! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_tongue.gif
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LOL That wasn’t the dog’s fault, it was the woman’s fault. She didn’t want her hubby in bed with her. He must be a bad lay https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif Yall know it’s true! I know how yall women think https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_tongue.gif
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Oh, junglecat- thanks for the male perspective. I appreciate your frankness. I almost choked on my sandwich! We need an occasional reminder about how insecure, simple and disgusting boys can be! It helps us keep them in their place! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_jokercolor.gif
All the men out there who see this are gonna go, "Darn Jungle Cat, that traitor!!" https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif Hehe, hey what can I say? I got love for my ladies and they need all the help they can get. Men have been getting away with their crap for far too long. But don’t think I’m biased. Yall women can be slick too! I remember one time back when I was a kid when my mom had one dude hiding in the closet while another one coming thru the window!! HAHA exciting times! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_razz.gif So don’t just think I’m just jumping on the men. I have been known to play both sides of the fence when the situation calls for it so everybody better mind your P’s & Q’s!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_tongue.gif
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I’m glad things are smoothing out for you ladies too!! Really sometimes it just takes a bit of communication and respect to keep things on track. Now I want everyone to get back to smiles and laughs now!! tee hee https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif
*patiently waiting on untamedshrew’s vid* https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
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I guess it’s about time for a male perspective hehehe
To be honest, unless you are Hugh Jackman, all men are scared little boys!! I’m just gonna put the truth out there. All men have an intense fear that their woman is all of a sudden going to turn from an ugly duckling into a beautiful swan and feel that they want to move on to a prince charming. Us men are hugely insecure. Irrational even. It’s why we take such drastic dramatic steps to cover it up with something else. Granted there are a lot of crazies out there, and it is true what amcut said, "Men can masturbate to just about everything" https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif however, there is soooooooooooooo much sick perverse free porn material on the Internet, (I ran across a woman gettin banged by a great dane the other day!! yikes!!!) that the likelihood of men actually sitting on this site and filtering through all these videos that show absolutely zero nudity and attempt to fulfill any kind of fantasy is almost to the point of absurdity to be worried about. Hell we need tiny blue pills, penis pumps, and gals to stepping on own our crotches with heels to get it up for God sakes lol Men these days are hugely sexually desensitized. Eventhough the concern is legitimate, it’s really not all that serious.
At the same token, when you are married, one’s partner’s feelings should probably most definitely be considered as duty. Being jealous means that one is probably truly deeply in love. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif And that’s a rare quality to find in this day and age. I know I don’t have much authority or experience to speak on marriages since I’ve never been married and I have been celibate 3 years, but I had to go through some jealousy issues in the past. Some partners of mine didn’t even want me to go to the club because they felt that I dance too sensual and drew too much attention. Eventhough they know that I hate dancing with people at the club (I only dance with myself unless you’re a steady partner) and that I’m the biggest prude in America https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif irrationality, insecurity, and fear makes you forget the real true character of the person you are with sometimes. So don’t take that too personal.
It is not unreasonable to sit down with your partner and discuss the issues calmly, honestly, plainly, and openly. You never know when there is a deeper underlining issue that could be at the root of the agitation. It’s also not unreasonable to set some ground rules and make basic compromises. That’s probably a good idea in this day and age with so many torbulent marriages. The Internet also is a great power, with the potential to be a help or hinderance. The miracle of technology can bring together friends and family who are overseas and expose us to a vast wealth of information that can further our education. It has just as much potential to bring someone a new secret lover. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_confused.gif I was a product of a broken marriage in a family in the sticks with no cable, Internet, or exercise equipment so I can definitely see how having a hot pole goddess for a wife/gf would make any man nervous. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif And honestly, no man likes other men checking out their woman. Even if they are parading them in public as a trophy.
Clearly, the easiest thing to do is to compromise because stroking a partner’s ego 24-7 would be too freakin exhausting for anyone to do. It doesn’t work longterm anyway. Trust me, I’ve tried https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif You might end up killing or losing yourself in the process. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif But don’t let guilt make you feel obligated to completely sacrifice your happiness and shun your voice. You are a person too with equal rights. Compromising and being controlled and oppressed are 2 different things. Just make sure you are considering yourself in this too. You’ve definitely come to far discovering yourself to lose yourself now. Regardless, what you do decide to do, you know we got your back and we support you in whatever decisions you decide to make. I love you and I’m praying for you. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_thumright.gif
Jungle Cat https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cat.gif
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You will get it soon love! I wish I could do one arm spins like you!!!!
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Yay!!!! That’s great Tracy!!! Welcome to the family!!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif *hugs*
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It’s Tuesday afternoon here in the US May 26th and I’ll be hangin around in chat for a while if anyone wants to talk https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif
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I’m on FB!! mailto:MrPhatLips@hotmail.com https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
