[opielee]

@poledanceromance;

 

hey,i totally feel where you're coming from,i've read the bios of alot of the pole pros and they all seem to say have dance/gymnastics background.i myself,was feeling down in the dumps awhile ago because i was unrealistically measuring my progress against everyone else,i started out anxious,then got happy and then ended up frustrated and in tears because i feared being forever stuck at the same level.thank you for sharing what i've been feeling lately but couldn't come out to say,i guess at the end of the day you just have to remember what drew you into pole dancing in the first place and keep perspective on that,if you have the passion for it and enjoy it,then that's all you really need,hope this helps.

 

[opielee]

if you have an ipod touch/ipad(?),you could download felix cane's app that showcase pics/videos of all the diff tricks at all levels from beg to pro,hope this helps.

[opielee]

i've heard of the instead cup and have used it,it's ok,but i don't think it holds as much fluid as they claim,as for using it while you're doing with your guy,well,it works,but the thing is,the guy can still somehow feel there's something in you,so i don't if it helps.can you tell more about the diva cup?i live in ny,so i'm if this is something i can find,or even the meluna cup