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  • samjane

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    June 22, 2015 at 12:15 pm in reply to: Significant other unimpressed by pole activity?

    Hi KristaCNH! Thank you so much for your reply!! As AllysonKendal mentioned he doesn’t sound like he is annoyed, probably he thinks you spend too much time with it and not enough with him? I mean pole dancing requires 100% devotion every singe day and maybe he would like to spend your time every day with him doing other things you both love (going for dinner, movies etc)? The weird thing is your bf says “i hate pole” but without giving any further explanations.
    My ex clearly told me ” I hate pole dance because i think it is provocative”.
    My current bf told me exactly the same thing. Which is frustrating.. However, i suspect/believe that in both cases the reason is our different ethnicity and therefore culture (and if that is the case it would be difficult to change his mind). Are you guys experiencing something similar (regarding the cultural/ethnicity differences etc)? Many thanks!

  • samjane

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    June 22, 2015 at 7:48 am in reply to: Significant other unimpressed by pole activity?

    Hi KristaCNH, i was wondering what happened with your bf. Has he finally changed his mind? I broke up with mine (for other reasons obviously) and currently i have a new relationship BUT..Again the same problem, the same frustration. I don’t know what is going on with guys these days… I mean he is only 34 (my ex was 33), so i cannot understand why they are so conservative..Many thanks!

  • samjane

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    July 8, 2013 at 2:24 am in reply to: Significant other unimpressed by pole activity?

    @ https://www.studioveena.com/users/view/4d918eae-b5ac-4d0d-8eb3-3d7b0ac37250Really? Im glad your dad is supportive. I do know that his family is very conservative. He told me that pole dancing is considered provocative (at least) in China..I guess it has to do mostly with his family and his statushttps://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif..

  • samjane

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    July 7, 2013 at 12:43 pm in reply to: Significant other unimpressed by pole activity?

    That's exactly the reason I am so skeptical to start pole dancing…My bf is very discouraging: (. He is not very comfortable with the idea and he states that in his country (he is not American, he is from China) pole dancing is considered unethical. I think this is something beyond jealousy or his ego.  He does love me for sure and he trusts me. However this is related with his cultural upbringing and unfortunately there is nothing I can do to change his mind right now https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif

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