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Mine is complete opposite after three kids mine is middle by bottom and top fine but mid stomach like I’m wearing an inflatable under my shirt lol starts above where the top of your pants sit up to where ribs start any help for that? Saving up for tummy tuck to fox that and get rid of as much of the stretch marks I can but they tell u to get as close to goal weight before so itllooks better after the surgery so that’s what I’m trying to do now. Also for ppl who have had the tummy tuck how long before you were able to get back on the pole and did you have to start at the beginning with training?

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How you are before marriage is how you will be after. If you let someone treat or talk to you anyway and alwaysaaccept it they won’t change you go into how you want it to be. If you are strong and independent then be strong and independent there are guys who value and like that if you are needy there’s guys out there who like that too. I was in a long relationship he was my world my best friend the father of my kids I did what you did and catered to him first even had same situation as yours. It started with just words and moved to him kicking my @ss almost killing me a few times. Not saying yours will get to that point but you never know if someone is showing signs like that you have to listen to your heart it knows what you should do. If he’s stressed then he should know you are too and that bring you together and Mayne he has too many issues dealing with his life and family to make such a huge commitment right now. Or he might have doubts too you should talk calmly if that doesn’t work ask him to write what’s wrong and how he thinks you guys can fix it and you do the same and exchange papers but NEVER marry someone because deep down you don’t want to be alone. I have been single for a little over 6 yrs at first hardbutility with time I got to know myself and my dreams and wants in a partner so when I do meet someone I can make better choices. Cause like u said if he’s like this now how will it be when married and have kids living in own home and things tight or he’s not getting much business or god forbid gets fired are those gonna stress him out to cause him to flip? Cause with three kids I know it’s stressful and hard do you want a family with him if these little trials is too much for him

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I will be 100% home taught and wanted to know if the Jamilla Deville art of pole box set and a membership to Veena would help me. Always wanted to learn never had time for studio lessons so ordered my x stage lit 45 chrome, the art if pole DVD set and Alethea Austin pure splits and stretches set should be here Friday. Will those things and membership for lessons on here be enough for me to learn?

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Thanks

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Hope being tall doesn’t stop me I am 5″11 without heels.

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I too have wanted to learn other things like silks, hoops or fire but live in georgia and can’t seem to find any lessons for anything besides pole here does anyone know of some place i live in locust grove about 1hr from atlanta henry county

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Are they still available?

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Are they still available?

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Would love to get those if they are still available I live in georgia! My name is stephanie email tigerlillies5402@yahoo.com

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Hi I’m interested also tigerlillies5402@yahoo.com

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Have that one and so outdated music and how them shot it I lose interests quick im like the dog from up! Squirrel haha

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Do they help you weight wise if wanna lose a little and tone up? Thinking of buying the combo pack is both good or just the blast one better

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i am a survivor of both sexual assault and domestic abuse. have no self esteem i won’t even leave my house unless i have to. and well no friends because of pole i will go out for classes and i joined things like this site. both things domestic and sexual abuse changes u makes u scared and don’t trust but also how u look and think about yourself. i have three beautiful kids and want to show them that i am strong and to care and love yourself pole is helping me to do that. just thought might help if you knew pole helps with more then recovering from sexual assault but domestic abuse too having gone through both myself

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thanks so much was about to just fly out to cali and do a two day workshop. will def be calling tomorrow!

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i too plan on learning that way so wish u the best of luck! i plan on using veena and the five disc set on bad kitty to learn let me know what works for u and I’ll do the same!:)