[uvagirl76]

*fly…silly fingers.

[uvagirl76]

i have been poling for over 6 years, almost 7 now…i am not as good as people who have been doing it way less time, but there is no doubt i have love for "poling"…the area that comes naturally is floorwork, fluidity and sensuality….i also have small children and a teenage sdaughter, to whom i have taught many holds, spins, climbs, turns and i have no problem teaching them "pole sport". 

i will NOT teach them what the consensus terms "pole  dancing". or, at least not until there 18 or over and have their own sensuality to interpret. 

to me the term "pole sport" can encompass ALOT of dance, fluidity, beauty, and strength, and be palatable to a family audience. the "pole dancing" that many of us enjoy would be an uncomfortable watch for a family with children. this is a wonderful, healthful activity that has it's most identifiable roots in sex steeped ground (never mind  that chinese pole could buy beer before strip pole dance was even born google "Mallakhambha")

if it's gonna be an organized event that people will watch and recognize as something that doesn't HAVE to be sensual or sexual, it has to be standardized for scoring and integrity.  if you think that's too bland never compete in their competitions

yep, it's annoying that the people that will make poling a giggle free activity appear to be devoid of the passion that many of us associate with the art. it's doubly annoying that the people that we  have been googling for years, that may have gotten their start as exotic dancers,  will probably never have the notoriety or endorsement loot that the technically pitch perfect people will have hailed at there feet once corporate america sees the financial windfall to be had from polers.

but, although it can pay more bills, notoriety isn't everything. and here is a beautiful thing: i would bet my pole that the people we google and revere, i.e. alethea, veena, karol, jenyne could do a pitch perfect technical performance, emote it, have it move us, and NEVER have to sensual or sexualize one pinky.  but could the gymnasts, athletes and so forth that are doing perfect F10s  move us to beauty, or make us want to be sexy?

hmmm…

it ain't the end result we're hoping for, but dammit people it's a start. my friends have heard me talk about it for years and still get a look when i tell them what a pretty chair spin my 4yo daughter can do, or how strong my 5yo son is in his inversion. i wouldn't want to flight in orville and wilbur's first plane, but i'm damn sure glad they built it when i need to fly somewhere today.

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[uvagirl76]

i think that the problem i have is that the extra flesh that is there gets twisted, and no matter how hard i squeeze there still will be relocating and twisting of the flesh just because it's a couple inches between the pole and the muscle…and so i must learn to embrace the pain! grrrr arrrrgh!https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_exclaim.gif

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prettypuff1 i have trouble getting the pole to my knee pit too…i think i just need to learn to suck up the pain of the tissue from the back area being pulled to the front…it's hard to take it like a woman when you look down and see your ass meat coming out the front lol https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_eek.gif….it does take a little more finessing when there's more body to move around the pole…just gotta do it a little different i reckon.

[uvagirl76]

Thank you ladies …sometimes its nice just to know other people struggled and got thru it to 🙂

[uvagirl76]

To Ajrt2118 i will try make sure ive got the hooty hoo kung fu grip on it…rose..your legs look way smaller to me lol! I think i just heard a fat dose of suck it up!

[uvagirl76]

Yes exactly. And because my thighs are so big at the top they push each other away. So frustrating!